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Mycatisahacker Mon 06-May-19 20:46:32

I smacked my older two occasionally. Can safely say they are completely normal adult men and great dads. I was smacked and it really really didn’t do me any harm.

Most parents know how to control themselves and most parents worship their children.

GabriellaG54 Mon 06-May-19 20:45:54

I was seldom smacked but when I was about 8, on one occasion with a sibling, each given 1 whack on the bare buttocks with the buckle end of dad's belt, after constantly talking across the landing to other siblings in their bedrooms when we should have been asleep. Ouch!!
We didn't do it again.
It didn't do either of us any harm...except having red cheeks for a bit. grin

Iam64 Mon 06-May-19 20:43:40

Smacking, hitting, frightening or hurting children is not only wrong, it’s a useless way of helping children to modify their behaviour. How any adult can believe that chastisement that includes shock, pain and fear is good parenting is beyond me. Reasonable chastisement - find more effective less abusive parenting skills

EllanVannin Mon 06-May-19 20:33:06

I must be an " empty-headed idiot !"

Urmstongran Mon 06-May-19 20:31:59

I must be one of your empty headed idiots maryeliza ....
?

Anniebach Mon 06-May-19 20:20:04

It was said back last year and no , not independance , Wales is too poor

Mycatisahacker Mon 06-May-19 20:16:04

I don’t know seeing some patents these days endlessly sitting their kids down to discuss why they pushed over little Jamie or why they feel the need to run around a cafe screaming I think a quick snack would be infinitely preferable for all concerned.

maryeliza54 Mon 06-May-19 20:03:19

By campaigners you mean the ‘I was hit as a child it didn’t do me any harm’ empty headed idiots?

Callistemon Mon 06-May-19 19:57:50

It's a divergence from English law but...does it herald an undertone of wanting independence?
Lots of areas diverge from English law or thinking, eg education - there are no grammar schools or academies in Wales. but that means independence of thought rather than a desire for independence.

Callistemon Mon 06-May-19 19:56:27

Plaid have 10 Assembly members and the other parties combined have 50 AM.

Callistemon Mon 06-May-19 19:51:17

does it herald an undertone of wanting independence?

No.

Mycatisahacker Mon 06-May-19 19:38:40

Can us English people get independence from Westminster too please. smile

mcem Mon 06-May-19 19:22:11

Possibly following Holyrood's lead.

GabriellaG54 Mon 06-May-19 18:44:06

I agree that they could certainly be forgiven for distancing themselves from Westminster.
I wonder what brought that thought to the attention of policy makers in Wales.
Has there been a noticeable rise in the reporting of such 'abuse'...hmm

Grandad1943 Mon 06-May-19 18:33:13

With the way that things are with this useless Tory government at Westminster who would blame the Welsh government for believing that this could be an excellent time to put the thought of indendence into the minds of the Welsh electorate.

GabriellaG54 Mon 06-May-19 18:24:59

The Welsh Government are drawing up plans to abolish the old common law defence of reasonable punishment for smacking a child.
Campaigners say that opens the door to hundreds of parents being investigated by police under the new laws.
It's a divergence from English law but...does it herald an undertone of wanting independence?