perhaps you should try getting out of your living room and interacting with those who may have a different opinion than your own. Personally, I have found that people who have a social conscience are very kind, they don’t sit behind a keyboard and complain; they go out and try to improve the lives of those less fortunate than themselves!
However, I'd just like to add that, unless you know lemongrove and what she does or did in life, there was no need for that remark about getting out of her living room and interacting with others.
Really, we do not know anyone's circumstances unless they tell us - posters could be dipping in here occasionally in between their busy lives helping others and doing charitable works, or they could regard GN as a lifeline because they are unable to leave their homes due to disability.