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TerriBull Tue 17-Sept-19 11:34:37

Camerons' son

TerriBull Tue 17-Sept-19 11:32:22

flowers so sorry Annie, I know it won't, and one has to have suffered that or be with someone who has, to know that it is indeed the greatest loss.

Just wish editors and individuals who think they can write about other people's grief and loss just wouldn't it's crass beyond belief. I was never a great fan of Gordon Brown, but similarly his heartbreak over the loss of a daughter was palpable. I remember him making the announcement in Parliament the day the Cameron's son died and thought, you understand what they are feeling.

janeainsworth Tue 17-Sept-19 11:28:45

I watched David Cameron’s interview with Tom Bradby last night.
His continuing love and grief for Ivan shone through. No amount of money or privilege could ease that pain.

SirChenjin Tue 17-Sept-19 11:26:45

There was a particularly viscious thread on MN about this a while ago. Apparently (and I'm paraphrasing obviously) it's because the family didn't have to worry about the financial side of having a disabled child (the Tories have reduced welfare payments to people who need them) and they were able to buy the help they needed which made things much easier for the family. It was awful to read.

sunseeker Tue 17-Sept-19 11:25:25

I understand the Guardian has now apologised. Should never have been printed in the first place.

Anniebach Tue 17-Sept-19 11:24:30

I hadn’t read this so just googled it.

Vile, sick, cruel. No amount of money could have eased my grief when my darling Catherine died, no amount of money
could ease it now and never will.

TerriBull Tue 17-Sept-19 11:20:32

My thoughts too Monica, I wasn't a fan of DC as PM, a complete lightweight in so many ways and of course his legacy is always going to be the mess we're in right now. However, The Guardian stooped to a new low with that one, not the first time it's given a platform to others to utter similar sentiments. The loss of a child is not a subject that should be used against the person they are seeking to criticize imo.

M0nica Tue 17-Sept-19 11:15:00

I think it was a vile thing to say. The loss of a child, is the loss of a child. All the money in the world is not sufficient recompense.

TerriBull Tue 17-Sept-19 11:09:13

Can someone explain this to me, according to The Guardian it's what David Cameron experienced when his disabled son died. Is a newspaper able to interpret someone else's grief and speak for them? shock Whilst not in anyway in the same financial bracket as DC, my husband lost his son a few years ago, we weren't, or aren't on our uppers, reasonably comfortably off, in that we are fortunate. Our financial circumstances never mitigated my husband's pain and grief. it's always something he will carry with him.