Those who have had dealings with the present system (like Granny23 and Luckygirl) know only too well the immense strain it puts on relatives, at just about the worst time, too.
There just aren't enough hospital beds, nurses, care homes or home carers. What we do have is cut to the bone and rationed. Even the 'best' care is far from ideal.
My friend is helping to care for her mother, along with other family members and carers, despite being in her late sixties - and having had a heart attack herself. I see her getting paler and thinner, more worried and depressed, by the day.
What will happen to our kids? Their children will still be working and elderly themselves!
A tax/NI scheme (ring fenced for care) would have to be mandatory, just like pensions. Some of us won't need it but we'd all pay in and have peace of mind. It would be lovely to know, for sure, that we could give children an inheritance!