Just who are these people who are imposing low expectations on children from difficult backgrounds, MOnica?
I worked in a school in an area of high deprivation. The whole school ethos was for teachers to work their socks off to get the children examination results which would help them to progress in life. The message was always positive; do well in schools and it will help you in your future. But, as the HT said sadly (to me, privately), 'We are selling them a lie when there are so few jobs available to them'
I would suspect that many of us on Gnet had at least one set of grandparents who were in poverty, even in deep poverty, but opportunities for our parents, and us, in the 50s. 60s and even 70s were far greater given the UK's still thriving industrial base and the need for people in clerical and retail occupations. Jobs were plentiful.
The destruction of our industries, computerisation and the outsourcing of work to countries where labour costs are far lower has had a profoundly negative effect on jobs available for 'ordinary' people over the past 30 -40 years.
But, believe it or not, many people are trying very hard for these children, despite the not very encouraging circumstances they face, not dismissing them as never going to achieve anything.