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Martha Hancock

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Sarnia Mon 28-Jun-21 10:16:08

I wish the media would leave this lady alone. Over the weekend she has been described as a private person and suffering from Long Covid after picking up the virus when her husband had it. After his revelations to her that his affair was about to be made public, her world must have been turned on its head. She has 3 children to care and support as well. It must be awful for her leaving her house to have cameras thrust in her face hoping to catch some emotion from the poor woman. Leave her be. Go and pester the ones responsible.

Kalu Mon 28-Jun-21 14:48:09

Alegrias1

Or, as the grown ups call it, "responsibility".

You are simply being provocation now and rather silly in my view.

My point was, I am more than capable of making a responsible decision without anyone judging me with their dictate and adding insults for good measure. deciding which newspaper I take, according to content. I have never felt the need to insult another poster. Why would I?

Talullah Mon 28-Jun-21 14:44:45

Kali2

Well it is not The Sun, or any of its cousins!

Because when you buy the same paper for 10 years or so, you know that this is the kind of story they specialise in... again and again- so if you continue buying, it must be because you 'approve', otherwise you wouldn't buy, would you?

What paper do you read, Kali2?

I've not bought a newspaper for years.

Kali2 Mon 28-Jun-21 14:39:47

Well it is not The Sun, or any of its cousins!

Because when you buy the same paper for 10 years or so, you know that this is the kind of story they specialise in... again and again- so if you continue buying, it must be because you 'approve', otherwise you wouldn't buy, would you?

Callistemon Mon 28-Jun-21 14:22:21

just been right through today's paper- not a mention of Martha, no photo, nothing.
Which one please, Kali2?

I don't normally buy a paper, the first I heard about the press hounding Mrs Hancock was on GN.
Perhaps I should cancel my membership.

Chewbacca Mon 28-Jun-21 14:09:57

just been right through today's paper- not a mention of Martha, no photo, nothing.

Excellent a step in the right direction.

Kali2 Mon 28-Jun-21 14:08:01

just been right through today's paper- not a mention of Martha, no photo, nothing.

If you keep buying the same paper, with the same 'type' of salacious gutter stories - then yes, you are part of this- simple.

Chewbacca Mon 28-Jun-21 14:03:41

People pretending they know better than me really grinds my gears.

lemongrove Mon 28-Jun-21 13:58:32

Should everyone only read The I ?
Every newspaper carries news and also photos of Martha Hancock, and there are many other reasons why people buy newspapers than to read about that particular story.

Alegrias1 Mon 28-Jun-21 13:49:36

Why do you think they intrude in people's private lives? Because salacious gossip sells.

If their favourite newspaper thinks intruding into people's private lives is acceptable, you have to ask why it's their favourite hmm

lemongrove Mon 28-Jun-21 13:47:08

No Aleg it’s the constant desire from some to tell others what to do.wink
It goes without saying that press intrusion to anyone caught up in a ‘scandal’ like Martha Hancock is rotten behaviour, but that doesn’t mean they can’t buy their favourite newspaper.

Alegrias1 Mon 28-Jun-21 13:40:19

Or, as the grown ups call it, "responsibility".

lemongrove Mon 28-Jun-21 13:39:30

I think that ‘judgy pants’ is what keeps many threads going.

gilbo21 Mon 28-Jun-21 13:38:33

I agree, well said !

Alegrias1 Mon 28-Jun-21 13:37:02

I believe that The Sun is still very unpopular in Liverpool because of the way it reported on the Hillsborough tragedy. It was also boycotted in the North East of Scotland last year because of the way it reported that train crash near Stonehaven.

So yes, if you keep on taking the same newspaper irrespective of its journalistic standards, you are to blame.

The Independent however, seems to have got it right.

www.independent.co.uk/voices/matt-hancock-wife-affair-attention-b1873802.html

Chewbacca Mon 28-Jun-21 13:29:49

They only do it because it sells - so if you buy ...

What if I've been buying the same newspaper, every day for the last 10 years? Should I cancel the papers until they stop reporting on the subject, just to show them how outraged I am? Or should I change from the Independent to another? Oh wait..... every newspaper in the land is carrying the same story. So will you be cancelling all your papers kali2, so as not to feed them?

Kalu Mon 28-Jun-21 13:15:44

In this matter the press are deplorable. I feel so sorry that Martha Hancock has been dragged into the sordid behaviour of her husband and I do wish the press would leave her alone.

Take off the judgy pants Kali. We are more than capable of deciding which newspaper to purchase, ignoring any account of Martha Hancock and moving on to important news.
you are part of this too is insulting.

timetogo2016 Mon 28-Jun-21 12:42:23

Spot on Sarnia.
The gutter press at their best.

GillT57 Mon 28-Jun-21 11:50:34

I think the affair is now a private matter for both families to work through in privacy. The concern for the rest of us was the hypocrisy, and now that he has resigned, finally, over that, the affair is not public concern. I do admit though, that I have a secret delight in thinking about other philandering ministers having a dreadful weekend wondering if they too have been filmed. There is rumoured to be another high profile individual whose sexual shenanigans are well known amongst political journalists. I hope he/she, and others are suffering agonies of worry.

Kali2 Mon 28-Jun-21 11:19:59

They only do it because it sells - so if you buy ...

Blossoming Mon 28-Jun-21 11:13:34

Completely agree OP.

Kali2 Mon 28-Jun-21 11:12:38

hear hear- the Press should be ashamed of itself. If you buy the papers that are harrassing her and those poor kids- you are part of this too.

Grandmadinosaur Mon 28-Jun-21 11:08:44

My heart goes out to the poor woman and also to his children. So many lives now turned upside down just because a father/husband couldn’t keep it in his trousers.

glammanana Mon 28-Jun-21 11:01:57

^^ should read "actions" sorry

glammanana Mon 28-Jun-21 11:00:29

Whitewavemark2

The fact that Hancock has not come out and said “leave her alone” speaks volumes.

But we honestly shouldn’t be surprised.

Totally agree WW2 such a weak man he would have been better thought off if he faced up to his actions and told reporters to leave his wife and children alone.
I wonder how many other Ministers are twitching in case they have been recorded in compromising actins with their staff.

maddyone Mon 28-Jun-21 10:54:47

Poor woman, I feel sorry for her. The press need to leave her alone, it’s unacceptable for them to hound her, and keep asking her how she feels. She has behaved with dignity.