“Everything going back to the state”
That sounds like communism to me, that’s been proven to be a failure and the political elite are the only ones that benefit, because nobody cares, there is nothing to gain by putting in any effort.
It is indeed everyone out for themselves, it’s the government that balances society by taxing those that can pay and helps those that can’t. For the last 50 yrs all governments have encouraged individual enterprise, no more so than the help given to women to maintain a career. You might think that it is not done fairly so vote for a left wing government, if enough others agree maybe there will be change.
Ordinary people can accumulate wealth, you learn a skill, teacher, nurse, plumber, accountant, take your pick, progress the career, many couples do this and it can be done now. The problem is for those that don’t have any relevant skill and end up on low wages.