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Police that can’t be trusted

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nanna8 Fri 01-Oct-21 12:16:22

How totally disgusting that a policeman should murder a young woman and what a disgusting response from the met. How dare they ask people to check on whether an officer is legit? Not the responsibility of the public but theirs and theirs alone. They need to sack the bosses and that is what would have happened here. It makes me sick to think of how they knew beforehand that this creature had prior convictions.

BlueBelle Fri 01-Oct-21 15:04:57

I can't understand how Couzens, whilst off duty was still in possession of all his police paraphernalia. Why do off duty officers need their card, handcuffs, police belt etc??

The report I read said he had just finished a shift at the US embassy so presumably on his way home Scones

Rosie51 Fri 01-Oct-21 15:14:09

If after all of that you feel in real and imminent danger and you do not believe the officer is who they say they are, for whatever reason, then I would say you must seek assistance - shouting out to a passer-by, running into a house, knocking on a door, waving a bus down or if you are in the position to do so calling 999. I agree that the list of questions reads as silly and unworkable but parts of this last paragraph are common sense for any woman in any situation where she feels unsafe, even if that person is presenting as a police officer. And of course Couzens was a genuine officer who would have had a warrant card which was always going to complicate things.
I can assure you winterwhite many police officers (they're not all men!) would love not to have to engage when something goes down and they're 'off duty' but like my son and thousands of other decent police they swear to uphold the law, even at danger to themselves, at all times. When the London bombings on 7th July 2005 happened, my son was amongst those running towards the danger, not away from it. I appreciate that Wayne Couzens has further tarnished perception of the police, but please remember for every bad apple (who are found in every walk of life) there are many, many more just doing a good job. Who do people think caught and charged Couzens? The same service that caught Dr Shipman, nurse Beverley Allitt, and paedophile paediatrician Ralph Harper....

25Avalon Fri 01-Oct-21 15:23:44

Fat lot of use that advice is. What I’d like to see is someone standing up and say we got it horribly wrong, bad mistakes were made, we will investigate and put in policies so this doesn’t happen again. Then the public might feel a bit more trust. It is a shame for the decent cops out there.

Hetty58 Fri 01-Oct-21 15:31:00

25Avalon, spot on, it's an insult to all those working so hard to do a good job, isn't it?

Millie22 Fri 01-Oct-21 15:32:09

I think Sarah believed that the man she spoke to was a trustworthy person and that's why she felt safe to comply with whatever he said. How wrong she was. I would have done the same and in fact did once many years ago. I got into a police car as I was walking home on a dark night. There were two officers. It's a trust thing.

AGAA4 Fri 01-Oct-21 16:54:09

Couzens had planned the abduction in advance. It wasn't just a spur of the moment decision. When he was ready he went out looking for a victim.
I do feel sorry for all the decent officers who will be sickened by this murder. They will need to be very careful with women in future as many will be afraid if they are approached by a policeman.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 01-Oct-21 17:09:46

Well said Rosie51 we know quiet a few Police Officers (two in the Met) they are brave, caring family people.

winterwhite Fri 01-Oct-21 17:12:57

I beg your pardon, Rosie if I have got something wrong re off duty police officers, but I did say 'except in an emergency". You use the expression 'when something goes down' which I take to mean some kind of emergency, but an empty-handed woman walking along would surely not have been any kind of emergency.

MerylStreep Fri 01-Oct-21 17:37:32

How many stories are the like this one. Too many I’m afraid.
And I do know that there are some wonderful officers out there but life experiences have made me a bit www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-10049805/Frankie-Bridge-details-terrifying-incident-pulled-police.html

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 01-Oct-21 17:38:39

I agree Rosie, a bad apple can be found anywhere. I was concerned to hear that Couzens was a member of a WhatsApp group with other officers, where inappropriate remarks were made/offensive material shared. I understand they are being investigated and await the outcome of that and how many there were - also details of what will happen to those who failed to report the indecent exposure, reporting of which might have saved Sarah. I still have confidence in the police but want to see that this bunch of bad apples are properly dealt with. I very much doubt they are the only ones though. Such people will always exist everywhere.

MerylStreep Fri 01-Oct-21 17:40:19

That should read made me a bit jaded

winterwhite Fri 01-Oct-21 17:43:08

No one thinks that all male police officers are misogynist I'm sure.

What I find chilling in all of this is the reports of the extreme laddish/blokeish culture that is apparently carried too far in some police units. Eradicating this, where it exists, shouldn't be left to women

MerylStreep Fri 01-Oct-21 17:48:30

Just 3 days before Sarah was murdered police were handed CCTV of him exposing himself.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10048991/Police-KNEW-Wayne-Couzens-accused-flashing-failed-identify-Met-officer.html

JaneJudge Fri 01-Oct-21 17:54:27

I know, I saw this earlier. I thought Mcdonalds would have cameras tbh of the drive thru and outside areas for security reasons.

How vile though

lemsip Fri 01-Oct-21 18:08:21

when you go to drive through McDonalds you have to look up to the window where you order then collect your food! as his food was handed down to him he was seen to have no trousers on....hence the drive through., . could hardly walk in and order could he. The woman reported it to boss and police, then found out from other young staff he was a regular doing same but they didn't report him, only talking about him to other staff. he was never charged which is the disgrace.

Smileless2012 Fri 01-Oct-21 18:09:53

I think the advice being given is reasonable. None of us I'm sure would get into an unmarked 'police' car after this tragic case, even if we would have done so before.

Surely any officer would appreciate why a woman on her own would be extremely cautious knowing what we know now. We have to do all we can to keep ourselves safe.

I don't agree that it's victim blaming. Lessons will be learned and it's a terrible tragedy that this beautiful young woman lost her life in order for this to happen.

Smileless2012 Fri 01-Oct-21 18:11:27

I do remember that photo Whitewavemark and I also remember how she was behaving before she was wrestled to the ground. Hardly the behaviour you'd expect to see at what was supposed to be a vigil.

Whitewavemark2 Fri 01-Oct-21 18:20:28

Smileless2012

I do remember that photo Whitewavemark and I also remember how she was behaving before she was wrestled to the ground. Hardly the behaviour you'd expect to see at what was supposed to be a vigil.

And your point?

BlueBelle Fri 01-Oct-21 18:25:12

Of course if a police man on his own handcuffed you you wouldn’t have any choice about getting in the car would you ?She didn’t stand a chance if she’d have run he d have caught her ?
If I hear the phrase ‘lessons will be learned’ one more time I ll scream I think
The biggest clue was the fact that he was known by the nickname ‘the rapist’ and some of his colleagues knew he flashed etc so there is far more to this than one rogue bad Apple There seem to be a lot of rogue bad apples just that he was the worst

Rosie51 Fri 01-Oct-21 18:25:21

winterwhite

I beg your pardon, Rosie if I have got something wrong re off duty police officers, but I did say 'except in an emergency". You use the expression 'when something goes down' which I take to mean some kind of emergency, but an empty-handed woman walking along would surely not have been any kind of emergency.

Sorry winterwhite I did type a longish reply to you that has disappeared into the ether. I'll try again. No of course Sarah Everard was not an emergency. Couzens had no business even talking to her, let alone arresting her. He is a despicable man who went looking for a victim and found poor Sarah. He abused his position and brought shame on his profession.
I didn't explain myself well. When my son started his Met training he was told he was never 'off duty'. One example he was given was that if he was out socially in a pub for instance. If a fight broke out and he didn't intervene and police were called and identified him as police (met had to always carry their warrant card) then he could be on a disciplinary. Not a situation that most of us would regard as an emergency.
I admit I get upset when there's blanket condemnation of the police (not you I hasten to add), not improved because my son was beaten quite badly while on duty and the offender only got a 'telling off' from the judge. Nobody knows better than good police like my son what the rotten apples do, and he wants them out as much as anyone. It's up to the senior ranks to act on the reports given to them by other officers. Sadly they can be slow to do so.

Whitewavemark2 Fri 01-Oct-21 19:23:41

I would like to clear any suggestion that the young woman in the picture was in any way to blame as sort of left in the air by smileless

Patsy Stevenson was attending a vigil on Clapham Common along with many, many other women along with people like The Duchess of Cambridge who laid flowers in Sarah’s memory. The vigil and lawful protest was totally peaceful.

If anyone looks at the footage, they will be astounded at the high numbers of police presence, totally unnecessary, given the behaviour of the women.

Stevenson, put down a candle and flowers for Sarah.

lemongrove Fri 01-Oct-21 19:32:26

Blossoming

Oldwoman70

I think everyone is shocked and disgusted by this case - however, we must also bear in mind that the majority of police officers can be trusted and are not a danger to women. It is easy to tar them all with the same brush when in reality they are as disgusted by his actions as everyone else.

Maybe so, but how are we supposed to know which ones can be trusted? I will continue to beware.

I think that Oldwoman70 is spot on.

Blossoming do you trust your / or other GP’s? If so, what about Harold Shipman?
Do you trust nurses when in hospital? If so what about the cases of nurses who kill patients on the ward.
Would you damn all firefighters if one was a murderer/rapist?
This case is highly unusual and there is absolutely no need to distrust the police ‘en masse’.

lemongrove Fri 01-Oct-21 19:35:53

Rosie51

winterwhite

I beg your pardon, Rosie if I have got something wrong re off duty police officers, but I did say 'except in an emergency". You use the expression 'when something goes down' which I take to mean some kind of emergency, but an empty-handed woman walking along would surely not have been any kind of emergency.

Sorry winterwhite I did type a longish reply to you that has disappeared into the ether. I'll try again. No of course Sarah Everard was not an emergency. Couzens had no business even talking to her, let alone arresting her. He is a despicable man who went looking for a victim and found poor Sarah. He abused his position and brought shame on his profession.
I didn't explain myself well. When my son started his Met training he was told he was never 'off duty'. One example he was given was that if he was out socially in a pub for instance. If a fight broke out and he didn't intervene and police were called and identified him as police (met had to always carry their warrant card) then he could be on a disciplinary. Not a situation that most of us would regard as an emergency.
I admit I get upset when there's blanket condemnation of the police (not you I hasten to add), not improved because my son was beaten quite badly while on duty and the offender only got a 'telling off' from the judge. Nobody knows better than good police like my son what the rotten apples do, and he wants them out as much as anyone. It's up to the senior ranks to act on the reports given to them by other officers. Sadly they can be slow to do so.

That’s quite right rosie in fact police can lose their job if they don’t intervene when off duty and a crime takes place.
There is no ‘choosing to ignore it’ for them.

Whitewavemark2 Fri 01-Oct-21 19:48:55

He is by no means the only rotten apple though.

Since 2009 at least 15 police officers have been convicted of murder.

Over the past 2 years 125 women, partners of a police officer has alleged abuse either to herself or children. How many have not reported abuse knowing that if they dial 999 she will be talking to her abusers mates?

Former deputy assistant commissioner David Gilbertson has warned of an epidemic of hidden violence , including cases where officers in domestic violence units “ actively search for vulnerable women for sexual gratification, and in other cases in order to gain access to these vulnerable women’s children for sexual purposes”

One officer was recently dismissed for for taking advantage of a rape victim whose case he was investigating.

Kate Wilson, an environmental activist was duped into sexual relationships by an undercover police officer.
She has since won a landmark human rights case against the Met.

Heaven knows how many more have gone unreported.

So no it isn’t as unusual as we would like to think.

Smileless2012 Fri 01-Oct-21 19:55:10

My point Whitewavemark is that photo taken out of context portrays the police as being un necessarily heavy handed which IMO they weren't.

So, let's keep the discussion sensible and realistic and not try to portray the police in general as behaving inappropriately where women are concerned. I left nothing "in the air". The woman in that photo's behaviour was outrageous and she was detained by the police.

"The vigil and lawful protest was totally peaceful" really!! well you and I must have watched totally different footage of the event. It was taken over by un peaceful protesters and the large number of police present was because of the pandemic and the fact that it had been requested that large crowds didn't gather.

So, to be clear IMO that particular woman's goading, disrespectful and aggressive behaviour toward the police resulted in her being detained.

Of course you are free to disagree just as I am free to give my opinion.

I agree lemongrove "This case is highly unusual and there is absolutely no need to distrust the police en mass".