Doodledog Only you could have taken a post suggesting that the way football treats young boys who eventually become rapists is somehow support for rapists. What I was suggesting was that if someone is putting money into an organisation that produces damaged young men (and surely if men become wife abusers, rapists and aggressive in their early 20s, not to mention drunks and drug users, they are damaged) and makes millions of pounds from these young men. the least they could do is do something to prevent that happening. Which isn't excusing rapists or making life easier for them it is addressing a problem at its root and hopefully protecting far more young women than ranting at one footballer or one club could ever do. You just get rid of one rapist and leave the others in development. Because that is what taking boys as young as 9 or 10, teaching them they are special, training them in aggression and conflict and giving them inflated egos whilst paying them huge sums as they reach their late teen does, and will continue to do, whatever happens to Goodwillie.
There is no need to get personal. It's clearly not 'only me', as can be seen from other comments, and I didn't say that 'the way football treats boys is somehow support for rapists'. I said that telling someone that she should be spending her own money on initiatives to socialise men, or on rehabilitating rapists so that they can go back to well-paid jobs is an insult.
I understand about addressing problems at their root, but that is not VM's (or any other donor's) responsibility. Socialisation of boys is the responsibility of parents and schools, with the law as a deterrent if that fails. It is not for anyone to tell a donor where she should put her support. If a fan wants to support a football team she should be able to do just that, without having to take responsibility for the way the players behave, any more than a theatre-goer who sponsors a theatre should be told that they should divert some of their money into the re-education of predatory actors. I applaud her for her actions, which seem to have given 'the incident' the publicity that has forced the club to make a U turn.