Iam64
One of my recurring thoughts is that the suggestion everyone avoids provoking Putin, is so reminiscent of the advice to women living with a domestic abuser. Also with the familiar defence / she provoked me, demasculated me, didn’t cook my food right, she knows I don’t like over cooked steak
Mmm - good comparison. However, as I understand it, the most dangerous time for the women (Ukraine) is often when they try to leave. It can end in life changing damage or even death. I think Ukraine would need outside help to escape from their abuser - which they are getting but perhaps the helpers need to think what more they can do to make a safe exit for them. In the domestic abuser story you would want Putin detained, at least while you organised Ukraine's freedom.