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Are the Royal Family losing their touch?

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volver Sun 03-Apr-22 16:22:31

A couple of weeks ago we had the disastrous PR associated with the Caribbean tour, and now the judgement of the Queen is being questioned, for giving Prince Andrew such a prominent role in the Duke of Edinburgh's memorial service.

The position of the Royal Family depends very strongly on their acceptance by, and the support of, the public both here and overseas; are they losing that?

Jaberwok Sun 15-May-22 14:20:17

I have two grownup children and three lovely grandchildren, so lets put it this way, if I substantially won the lottery, we would all benefit. So in answer to your question Mollygo, yes! Not sure about Cornwall though, or that hat!

nadateturbe Sun 15-May-22 14:23:40

volver

There's a bit of a difference between parents leaving their children a two up two down, and one's mummy leaving one several countries of which to be Head of State, exemption from certain fiscal laws, and the ability to be able to choose which other laws one gets to secretly amend in one's favour.

Even my atrophied old brain manages to work that out.

Of course there is.

Callistemon21 Sun 15-May-22 14:29:26

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Anniebach Sun 15-May-22 14:34:02

Those up north had faith in Boris didn’t they ?

volver Sun 15-May-22 14:35:10

Depends how far north you go. wink

Casdon Sun 15-May-22 14:42:46

volver

Depends how far north you go. wink

True, but Anniebach does have a very good point as far as England is concerned, it’s a reversal of traditional voting patterns. In the eyes of southerners, the north starts at Watford Gap, not at Hadrians Wall.

JaneJudge Sun 15-May-22 14:43:33

They are feted and fawned over just because of whose vagina they came down

should be GN quote of the week! grin

Mollygo Sun 15-May-22 16:06:00

They are feted and fawned over by some, as are other people, usually rich ones like the Wagatha Christie pair.
There’s a bit of difference . . . Of course there is. Most people I know don’t have the money or the clout to make gifts like that. The question is would we refuse to do it if we had the means.
How many on GN would refuse to give their offspring any gifts, however expensive, if they could afford to, or were in a position to do so?
How many on GN have, or would have turned down any gifts from their parents, during or after their lifetimes?
I can certainly imagine there are those who haven’t been in a position to receive or give such gifts, but does that mean they wouldn’t if they could?

Grany Sun 15-May-22 16:07:49

I have got nothing but admiration for these two. They've got loads medals and stuff.

volver Sun 15-May-22 16:52:03

This made me laugh. Sorry, but it did. ?

nadateturbe Sun 15-May-22 17:35:32

How many on GN have, or would have turned down any gifts from their parents, during or after their lifetimes?

Would depend on how they or their ancestors acquired the wealth/possessions.

I have no objection to people passing on anything they have worked for.

Joseanne Sun 15-May-22 18:50:10

I thought the line of succession to the throne and riches could be prevented by Parliament if they thought fit, and that the successor could be denied the job if they had turned to say Catholicism or a life of crime? It isn't an automatic ticket, though I assume it would go to the next family member.

Bridgeit Sun 15-May-22 19:52:20

So would you refuse any inheritance that you personal had not worked for ?

Joseanne Sun 15-May-22 20:04:02

Personally, no.
Just because I hadn't slogged away working in the usual sense, it might not mean that I hadn't made other sacrifices which weren't immediately apparent to others. I come back to saying it is impossible to compare and doing so can cause bitterness. I think Prince Harry touched on this somewhere in an interview.

Mollygo Sun 15-May-22 20:06:14

Bridgeit

So would you refuse any inheritance that you personal had not worked for ?

That’s what I’m wondering. Do GNs refuse to pass on the results of their labours to their descendants? Do GNs turn down inheritances or gifts from parents or relatives unless they have investigated the provenance of the inheritance?

And a definition of ‘worked for’.
Who on GN decides what work counts?

Bridgeit Sun 15-May-22 20:17:44

I think most of us would know what we had or had not done within our families. But would we be honest to ourselves about how deserving or not we may be .. . & if we find ourselves to be undeserving what would / should we do about it?

merlotgran Sun 15-May-22 20:43:06

volver

This made me laugh. Sorry, but it did. ?

What’s the point in having a deputy if you don’t use him?

From now on I hope the Queen leaves all the work stuff to Charles and we get to see her at the light hearted events she enjoys.

nadateturbe Sun 15-May-22 21:25:18

I would accept money/property left to me if it had been earned honestly.

nadateturbe Sun 15-May-22 21:32:18

I also think it's fine to pass on anything you have worked for.
The RF haven't worked for what they have.
I'm not jealous of their wealth.

Mollygo Sun 15-May-22 21:34:19

nadateturbe

I would accept money/property left to me if it had been earned honestly.

And how do you decide that?
In the past captains of slaver ships believed the money had been honestly earned. Prostitutes and traffic wardens also believe their money is honestly earned, as does the lady who tries on HM’s shoes.
How far back do you want the ‘honestly earned’ to go?
If it’s just a personal belief that the money was or is honestly earned then we can all get to choose. What if someone pointed out that they did not accept that your ancestors earned the money honestly? Would you honestly hand it back?

nadateturbe Mon 16-May-22 07:53:19

If someone proved to me that it was obtained dishonestly in any way, I wouldn't want it.
Having wealth isn't important. Living with a clear conscience is.

volver Mon 16-May-22 08:29:56

Prostitutes and traffic wardens also believe their money is honestly earned, as does the lady who tries on HM’s shoes.

Traffic wardens? confused

Mollygo Mon 16-May-22 08:58:16

Why not? Don’t you think they do an honest job of work?

Mollygo Mon 16-May-22 09:03:37

nadateturbe

If someone proved to me that it was obtained dishonestly in any way, I wouldn't want it.
Having wealth isn't important. Living with a clear conscience is.

You wouldn’t want it, but that’s different from giving it back. How would you give it back? Upset your parents or family by telling them they were dishonest? How far back in time would you go?