JaneJudge
My cousin is a transwoman VS, I'm quite capable of accepting people for who they are and respecting their own rights as adults whilst being concerned about safeguarding with respect to children.
I hope you are okay
Yes, the notion that those who want to aid and abet children to defy their parents and try to prevent their physical development before their mental development has caught up have the monopoly on tolerance or accepting others for who they are is yet another of the patronising viewpoints I was talking about.
I asked ages ago for a way of describing people who want the rights of transpeople to come before the rights of others, but nothing has been suggested. I don't think 'trans supporters' covers it, as I am a supporter of transpeople - just not for them to have the right to push women aside or to damage children. TRA has violent and therefore negative connotations, so that isn't suitable either. I don't want to cause offence, but It would be convenient to know what term to use - particularly as the term 'gender critical' is used for those who feel as I do.