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Racism as a factor in violence against females

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Baggs Sun 04-Dec-22 16:25:17

This is not a factor i have considered before. I thought violence against females by males was a sorry but universal part of the human condition.

I suspect that, like other kinds of violence, it is not as widespread as it has been in the past. See ourworldindata.org and humanprogress.org for info and stats on that.

I would like to hear what other people have to say on this and why they think racism is an important, and possibly under-rated, factor.

Hithere Mon 05-Dec-22 01:06:08

Spot on I am around

"Boys will be boys" - how many times have we heard it?

Curtaintwitcher Mon 05-Dec-22 06:26:37

No, I don't think racism is a factor at all. It all boils down to the general attitude of so many men towards women. They seem to blame us for all their problems.
Of course, some will bring racism into everything, it's become an obsession with many.

Doodledog Mon 05-Dec-22 08:19:22

I agree. Misogyny is at the bottom of VAWAG, and whereas someone who thinks like that and ‘backs up’ his thinking with violence is quite likely to also be racist and homophobic, one of those prejudices doesn’t drive the others. They are all borne of a mindset that despises difference, sees straight white men as ‘naturally’ superior and thinks that violence is the way to deal with frustration or insubordination.

nanna8 Mon 05-Dec-22 09:55:31

If you had been raped you would think very,very hard before seeking police help. You would have to go through it all again in court . Just not what you would ever want to do. Then there is the possibility of the rapist hiring an expensive lawyer and getting off scot free. No, definitely something you would think twice about.

sarabande Mon 05-Dec-22 11:57:49

Hi, I have noticed that women are prescribed hormone treatment to address problems with for menopause, PMS, for example. This is overwhelmingly NOT because they are at risk of murdering or raping other people. So how does it happen that male violence against women, including rape and murder, is not addressed with hormonal treatment?

Doodledog Mon 05-Dec-22 12:13:22

I suppose because women getting HRT etc are aware that they have problems, and are seeking help, whereas violent men might see their behaviour as normal, or caused by the women in their lives. There are real ethical issues with medicating people against their will, so unless someone went to a doctor and asked for hormone treatment (which many would see as chemical castration) it's unlikely to happen.

sandelf Mon 05-Dec-22 12:37:05

How many of the 'Rotherham' girls were non-white? None. Their abusers kept away from 'their' community and went for 'white trash'. They and their parents were further abused by a system that claimed they deserved what happened.

sarabande Mon 05-Dec-22 12:59:52

Hi Doodledog, of course medicating against people's will is an ethical issue. However, under the Mental Health Act, there are allowances for this under some circumstances. Also, it is very serious if violent people, mostly men, are not aware they have problems or see their behaviour as normal or caused by others, as you suggest. This does not seem logical or reasonable to me. I ask myself why there is not more public focus on understanding and tackling the problems that some men have leading to criminal behaviour including rape and murder.

Doodledog Mon 05-Dec-22 13:32:56

The ends don't always justify the means, though. Maybe in this case they might; but we can't really allow forced medication of unwilling people. Particularly if they have yet to offend.

Jackiest Mon 05-Dec-22 13:46:34

Discrimination race, gendar, colour are all basically an us and them attitude to people where "us" matter and "them" don't and "them" can be exploited and abused. So it is not surprising that there is connection between raceism and sexism. All forms of discrimination needs to be stopped no matter how small or what direction it is in.

sarabande Mon 05-Dec-22 14:05:04

I couldn't agree more, doodledog that enforced medication is basically unacceptable. Nonetheless, it seems logical and reasonable that the vast majority of violent men do know that what they are doing is wrong and harmful, even lethal. Therefore, why would they refuse help to address their problem and protect victims? To suggest otherwise is insulting towards most men. And just because some people might refuse treatment, does that mean it should not be offered if effective?

Ilovecheese Mon 05-Dec-22 14:12:55

Perhaps because it is often in the interests of authority than men should be violent, if they are needed to fight wars.

VioletSky Mon 05-Dec-22 15:54:24

Jackiest

Discrimination race, gendar, colour are all basically an us and them attitude to people where "us" matter and "them" don't and "them" can be exploited and abused. So it is not surprising that there is connection between raceism and sexism. All forms of discrimination needs to be stopped no matter how small or what direction it is in.

Yup

We won't end violence against women until we end all forms of violence.

This means women taking responsibility for how we talk about race as well as other minority groups

Allsorts Mon 05-Dec-22 15:58:49

A lot if violence is from within a relationship. A lot of cultures tolerate violence towards women, only through education will the victims find the courage to leave.

Jackiest Mon 05-Dec-22 16:47:26

The men that are violent probably won't listen to women but may listen to men so we really need to get men on our side and not allinate them by treating all men as if they are a danger or by discriminating against them.

Smileless2012 Mon 05-Dec-22 17:51:07

That's an excellent point Jackiest, peer pressure can be extremely influential.