I'm not disagreeing with you Casdon. It's a debate we have to have. Of course, everybody wants the best for themselves. If I needed constant healthcare and it were possible to provide it at home, that's what I'd want. My sisters and I paid for it for the last few weeks of my mother's life. However, it wouldn't have been possible for months or years, and I don't think the cost to the NHS could have been justified.
Every so often there's a campaign in the media to fund very expensive cancer drugs or treatments. If I were the patient with a terminal condition, I might want to try them, but the NHS currently has a limited budget and it's supposed to be a national health service, trying its best to treat as many people as possible. The cost of some of these drugs would pay for two or three extra nurses, who could treat far more people. I think there needs to be an honest debate about how far we go. It's a sad fact that some people resent paying taxes so that more people can benefit from good treatment.