I rather think that it’s your thread title that’s “letting the side down” vickymeldrew.
Women pulling down other women and their achievements is something that I thought we had left in the past.
These are difficult and often dangerous times for women. The words we use to address each other has been weaponised against us as have the places and spaces we visit.
Nasty stuff
What colour car do you have or did you used to drive?
Bereavement wipes out everything



