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Nicola Bulley 45y Old mum of 2 little girls missing from River Wyre area since last Friday morning at 9:15am walking her dog, Willow.

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Urmstongran Tue 31-Jan-23 17:18:37

This, in the news is breaking my heart.
I hope she comes home safe soon - but every passing day is such a worry.

Urmstongran Sat 04-Feb-23 14:42:25

I’m with Joseanne.

BlueBelle Sat 04-Feb-23 14:47:54

This thread shouldn’t be deleted any more than a conversation with friends needs stopping
However there is at least one comment that does need deleting

FannyCornforth Sat 04-Feb-23 14:52:13

Exactly BlueBelle

merlotgran Sat 04-Feb-23 15:01:08

Delete the comment, not the whole thread. We’re not children and there’s no reason to stop anyone discussing something that’s in the public domain.

How terribly sad it all is.

BlueBelle Sat 04-Feb-23 23:37:04

The police are now looking for a lady wearing yellow pushing a push chair who they believe walked past the area at the time
The family are not happy with the police suggesting she fell in te water though
Oh I do hope something gives some reasons soon

Callistemon21 Sat 04-Feb-23 23:39:56

If you knew you were in the area at the relevant time, why would you not come forward even if you think you might not be able to help?
Anything could be useful.

FannyCornforth Sun 05-Feb-23 03:03:09

They have contacted the woman with the pram now.

BlueBelle Sun 05-Feb-23 03:10:46

Yes, the lady in yellow came straight forward perhaps she saw nothing so didn’t have anything to report

The family are obviously still concerned she was abducted and want more work to be done on that possibility

They are trying to check her fit bit watch activity

FannyCornforth Sun 05-Feb-23 03:41:06

‘Morning BlueBelle

Sparklefizz Sun 05-Feb-23 08:10:06

The family are obviously desperately holding onto the idea that she is still alive ... we'd all do that in their situation ... but I think it's likely she fell in the river.

You only have to look at those rough steep river banks which would be loose and muddy after nearly a month of rain, with a sign up saying beware of deep water (because apparently the river is shallow in places but definitely not in others).

Many people have fallen in the River Avon not far from where I live, and in Bath more lifebelts were positioned at intervals in the hope of avoiding deaths. People also fall into Bristol Docks.

Sadly and tragically I think she has somehow fallen in and been unable to get a grip on muddy clumps of grass on a steep bank to climb out when hampered by heavy wet clothing and wellies full of water.

fancythat Sun 05-Feb-23 08:16:05

Personally I dont think she is in the river. But I could be wrong.
Surely there would be marks of where she went in? And there are none?

But I dont like the way the police were keen to dismess other things so quickly right from the start. Why?

Which does make me wonder whether they have bungled or missed other things. I dont know.

Iam64 Sun 05-Feb-23 08:20:36

The police have their theory but that isn’t stopping them continuing to investigate. I don’t believe you’re right in suggesting they ‘bungled or missed other things.’
I’d be surprised if they weren’t on to the Fitbit possibly providing relevant information from day 1

Baggs Sun 05-Feb-23 08:29:37

I grew up in the Fylde (the area of Lancashire where St Michael's on Wyre is). The river Wyre is tidal from St Michael's even though it still has miles to go to reach the sea. I believe the police are searching the river all the way (about 13 miles).

This morning I read an article in the Sunday Times written by a dog trainer. He says that dogs are flummoxed if their owner falls into water and doesn't reappear and that a dog will stay in the area where their owner last was if they lose them. This is what Bulley's dog did. I suspect that is why police think she fell into the water.

I don't know what the tidal conditions were like on the day in question, but it seems to me possible Bulley was carried downstream if she did fall in at the deep spot where she was last known to be.

I hope they find her. It is a tragic story.

BlueBelle Sun 05-Feb-23 08:38:26

Fancythat I think you are wrong about the police I think they have been exhausting every avenue possible
It was on the news in the night that they are working on the Fitbit but it is a very difficult process
I also think you are incorrect by saying they ve dismissed everything else they have only said that it seems the most likely conclusion and short of ANY other evidence yes it does

They have looked at all cctv and personal video cameras and found nothing they have completely logged where she was on the whole walk and she was alone at each logging The only bit they haven’t been able to log (because there’s no cameras or sightings) is that last 10 minutes

For it to be foul play it would need someone to grab her and take her, where? She’d put up a fight there’d be drag and skuffle marks in the grass it doesn’t seem a path where cars go so where would she be dragged to Her phone would have been dropped not neatly laid on the bench, the dog would have been barking frantically, of course until they find her it can’t be ruled out but a dangerous fast flowing river a few yards away or a mysterious unknown, unseen person I think the former seems the most likely

veejay Sun 05-Feb-23 08:48:43

BlueBelle

Veejay you don’t always have to skid in maybe she overreached to grab the ball from going in or something similar and fell in She had heavy clothing and wellies on and it’s a fast flowing river to the sea
It’s all speculation and my first thought was abduction but it seems more likely that it was a hideous mistake one way or another
Apparently all CCTV and door videos in the area have been checked and there’s no other person seen anywhere

Sounds more and more likely a horrible, horrible once in a lifetime accident

*Bluebell.I wasn't suggesting anything,just saying what the report said.
I hope for the family's sake there will be closure soon
So sorry for the family ,and her poor children

BlueBelle Sun 05-Feb-23 09:07:44

I know veejay I was only answering your theory 😀

Galaxy Sun 05-Feb-23 09:29:47

Some incidents are just so horribly relatable. Just the thought of her dropping the children off, juggling work, making sure dog got walked, at the same time as thinking oh I need to arrange that playdate. It's just so sad.

MayBee70 Sun 05-Feb-23 10:05:35

From what I’ve read the police have checked the river all the way to the sea but, thus far have found nothing. They should have found something by now but I guess 15 miles is a long distance to cover.Everyone has to face bad things throughout their lives but the worst thing is always a ‘not knowing’ situation.

JaneJudge Sun 05-Feb-23 10:33:54

I understand why her family are saying thy don't think it's true, even if there is evidence or no evidence to suggest otherwise. It's just human nature and they appear to be a close, loving family

JaneJudge Sun 05-Feb-23 10:34:59

anyone who has lived by water knows what happens, year in, year out too. There are lots of tragic accidents unfortunately sad

Grantanow Sun 05-Feb-23 13:02:50

Very sad and of course the family wish to hang on to hope and the press/media will keep the story going as long as they can for their own reasons - audience, etc. It's impossible to prove a negative (no foul play) so the police are stuck with the most likely hypothesis (falling in, possibly trying to retrieve a dog toy). Unless she is found the answer may never be absolutely certain. Very sad for the family but I don't see any police dereliction here.

MawtheMerrier Sun 05-Feb-23 14:36:18

I’m sure others have thought or said this, but other than jumping into the river after her dog, surely she would have had her mobile on her - so falling into the river sounds unlikely to me. Unless of course there are clear signs of someone slipping down a bank.
I’m still more sceptical, and indeed pessimistic.

Callistemon21 Sun 05-Feb-23 15:39:09

I wondered if she'd thrown the ball for the dog while she was on the bench using the phone and it went down the bank, the dog wouldn't fetch it so she just dropped the phone and went to get the ball.

From all accounts she sounds like a lovely person, a devoted mother and I do hope the family get some answers soon.

MayBee70 Sun 05-Feb-23 15:40:38

But she was looking at her phone because she was listening to a meeting at work. Had to react suddenly to something and put the phone on the bench. Had she been abducted the dog would have followed her. I don’t understand why the dogs harness was lying on the ground.

Joseanne Sun 05-Feb-23 16:07:21

Callistemon21

I wondered if she'd thrown the ball for the dog while she was on the bench using the phone and it went down the bank, the dog wouldn't fetch it so she just dropped the phone and went to get the ball.

From all accounts she sounds like a lovely person, a devoted mother and I do hope the family get some answers soon.

But, (and I'm getting this from my DD on Facebook), a friend has said the family rarely takes the ball on walks now because the dog has become very very protective over its ball.