NotSpaghetti
Thanks for the link janejudge - very interesting.
Regarding Danny la Rue - to say that wasn't "sexualised" I know you're wrong. The stage show certainly was. I remember it pretty clearly!
I think I posted that link last week but when I read it I understood how it was similar to what we are discussing here. I also know what Grayson Perry says about when he dresses up as his alter ego but he has always been honest and straight about it.