Just to explain (although I have no obligation to do so I know) that I left the thread yesterday, not as one poster suggested because it was too hot in the kitchen, but because I had to get ready and leave my hotel room by the required time, and yes, it was hot in there, but I was nowhere near a kitchen! We then went to visit my niece and we had lunch with her (stayed three hours) after which we drove home, a journey of some five hours.
Re a deleted post that was apparently directed at me, I did not see it, because I was attending the funeral of my father in law, which is why we were away from home. I was not going to mention that on any thread, but it seems it needs to be said. Thank you to those posters who have given me support.
I have not changed my opinion about the subject of this thread, and I will not be bullied off a thread, but I did have other reasons leave the thread on both days.