BlueBelle
MrsNemo and Maddyone no I wasn’t with them in his house thankfully but I have read accounts by his previous children (now adults) they seemed to have no time for him I m pretty sure I read that one has cut him out completely and at least one of his (outside wedlock children) he doesn’t even acknowledge ….how hurtful
You really can’t defend the indefensible well obviously you can try
No, you misunderstood, I’m not defending him, L just wondered how anyone knew what he like as a father to his other children. However if his now adult children are avoiding him, that does speak for itself.
I hope that he will be a good father to his three children with Carrie. I would hope that for any child. He’s not a young man any longer so we can but hope that he’s settled down and will be faithful and a good father this time around.
I will say that huge numbers of people get divorced and huge numbers divorce because the husband has had an affair. I’m not in any way defending that as I’ve been married to the same man for nearly fifty years, but I have friends and family where there have been divorces and infidelity. For this reason I think everyone has the right to move forward with their life and remarry or whatever. The idea of moving forward is often promoted on Gransnet and I simply think that BJ’s politics aside, he has the right to move on with his personal life and Carrie has the right, with her husband’s agreement, to have a family of her own, as she is a young woman and that is perfectly natural.
Divorce is painful. We’ve experienced it in our own family. But everyone needs to move on from it and heal.