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Bonus Holes..as an alternative to a vagina.

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DiamondLily Sun 09-Jul-23 09:36:42

From a Woman's charity, dedicated to women's health,

What a revolting name, for a vagina. Who thinks up this nonsense?🙄

Julie Bindell has written an article for the DM:

"As holes go, they are arguably the most important in the world. Every man and woman ever to have lived – except those born by caesarean section – has sprung forth into this world from one.

And yet a charity dedicated to women's health, Jo's Cervical Cancer Trust, is suggesting that the word 'vagina' could be referred to as the 'bonus hole' to avoid offending or excluding trans men or 'non-binary' people.

As a feminist campaigner, I am appalled. I've spent time over the decades trying to raise awareness among women about our bodies.

I've encouraged women to unlearn the shame associated with our biology.

So the idea that we should stop referring to the vagina by its name is grossly offensive.

I grew up absorbing the message that our bodies were dirty.

We would use euphemisms to describe its parts, because 'vagina' and even 'breast' were considered unpleasant.

I recall, back in the Eighties, buying tampons only to have the shopkeeper quickly put the box in a brown paper bag as if it were a porn magazine. But we feminists learned to take pride in our physical form.

I would shake the tampons out of the bag to make the point that I was not ashamed of menstruating. After all, it's a reality for half the population.

It's worth noting that this form of McCarthyite censorship is reserved for descriptions of female anatomy only. That's why this is nothing short of misogyny.

There is no such suggestion, of course, to swap words that men use to describe their biology.

Perhaps, to be fair, we should change 'penis' to 'flesh roll' to avoid offending trans women? I'm sure men won't object. Just a thought."

www.dailymail.co.uk/columnists/article-12278639/JULIE-BINDEL-says-womens-health-charity-guilty-short-misogyny-again.html

lemsip Sun 09-Jul-23 09:42:05

Yes I saw this, it's all over the news not just dm as some will assume.
I wasn't brave enough to post it so I'm glad you did.
UK charity group suggests ‘bonus hole’ as a more inclusive term for vagina
July 02, 2023 - 2:54PM
Sky News host James Macpherson says a cervical cancer charity in the UK has suggested referring to the vagina as a “bonus hole” in an attempt to be more inclusive for transgender patients.

lemsip Sun 09-Jul-23 09:42:53

www.skynews.com.au/opinion/outsiders/uk-charity-group-suggests-bonus-hole-as-a-more-inclusive-term-for-vagina/video/87607136a9598ceb7fb8c9d4a866d497

Shinamae Sun 09-Jul-23 09:45:53

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again the world has truly gone mad! 🤦‍♀️

eazybee Sun 09-Jul-23 10:07:28

Orifice.

Aveline Sun 09-Jul-23 10:18:15

'flesh roll' 😂😂😂

Daddima Sun 09-Jul-23 10:19:49

lemsip

Yes I saw this, it's all over the news not just dm as some will assume.
I wasn't brave enough to post it so I'm glad you did.
UK charity group suggests ‘bonus hole’ as a more inclusive term for vagina
July 02, 2023 - 2:54PM
Sky News host James Macpherson says a cervical cancer charity in the UK has suggested referring to the vagina as a “bonus hole” in an attempt to be more inclusive for transgender patients.

Jings, so is this meant to avoid male to female transgender people being offended? I’d think they’d have a low risk of cervical cancer.

Daddima Sun 09-Jul-23 10:22:03

Sorry, I’ve just read it again, and it’s for woman to man people.
It’s equally stupid, though.

Shelmiss Sun 09-Jul-23 10:22:41

I really don’t care if transgender people are offended. I, as a woman, am offended by ‘bonus hole’!

Lathyrus Sun 09-Jul-23 10:23:26

Aveline

'flesh roll' 😂😂😂

Front flap?

Sparklefizz Sun 09-Jul-23 10:28:32

Thanks for starting this thread DiamondLily. I read this online last night and I was so furious that I'm sure it was the cause of the sleepless night I had.

How dare they? Women are being side-lined in so many ways just to appease a vociferous and aggressive minority. I am deeply offended - it's disgusting and crude and unbelievable.

As Shinamae says, the world has gone truly mad.

Spinnaker Sun 09-Jul-23 10:30:11

How's this one - pain pit ! As recently described by GC just having had the talk and slideshow in school, aged 6/7 year olds group.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 09-Jul-23 10:39:14

The worrying thing is that I am no longer surprised.

All the years of suffrage women’s liberation and of course the feminist movement and we are reduced to Bonus Holes

I can only conclude that the misogynist community must be very afraid of natural born women 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Iam64 Sun 09-Jul-23 10:53:30

GrannyGravy13

The worrying thing is that I am no longer surprised.

All the years of suffrage women’s liberation and of course the feminist movement and we are reduced to Bonus Holes

I can only conclude that the misogynist community must be very afraid of natural born women 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

You expressed my feelings very well GrannyGravy

BeverleyJB Sun 09-Jul-23 10:55:12

These changes in language, badged as being “inclusive” are nothing of the sort - all part and parcel of the gender identity ideological movement which seeks to erase women. If you call a vagina a ‘bonus’ or ‘front’ hole it dehumanises women, something that porn addled males seek to do.

Luckygirl3 Sun 09-Jul-23 10:56:02

Bonus hole - this is a McEnroe moment - you can't be serious.

I despair. I just despair.

henetha Sun 09-Jul-23 10:56:09

Society seems to be going through a weird phase at the moment. I hope common sense will soon prevail.
I'm a woman and I have a vagina. What's wrong with that?

Beckett Sun 09-Jul-23 10:56:16

I wonder how many trans men and non binary people they spoke to about this. Is the charity just assuming they would be offended? How about the offence caused to those of us born female?

Salti Sun 09-Jul-23 10:56:45

Absolutely disgusting! I find it hard to believe that a "woman", am I allowed to use that word, dreamed this up.

Oreo Sun 09-Jul-23 10:57:58

Aveline

'flesh roll' 😂😂😂

Vegan sausage?😂

BlueBelle Sun 09-Jul-23 10:58:08

Let’s start a protest and get our banners out
“Vaginas only”

Oreo Sun 09-Jul-23 10:59:23

GrannyGravy13

The worrying thing is that I am no longer surprised.

All the years of suffrage women’s liberation and of course the feminist movement and we are reduced to Bonus Holes

I can only conclude that the misogynist community must be very afraid of natural born women 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Oreo Sun 09-Jul-23 11:01:26

Tho tbf this is just one stupid suggestion by a stupid woman in a charity.

Sago Sun 09-Jul-23 11:03:49

What message is “bonus hole” going to give to children?
It is unbelievable but sadly true, these expectations from the trans community are doing their cause no good.
It is turning the “average Joe” against them.

Katie59 Sun 09-Jul-23 11:05:45

I’m the one that is grossly offended alone with women in general, I have breasts, a vagina, a womb anyone who seeks to belittle that offends me!.