Smoking is horrible and smelly but the nicotine addiction stops you noticing it. It’s only once you stop that you realise how disgusting it is. I agree about the dummy analogy: in fact I said that to my partner tonight. Part of the problem with giving up smoking is that it is a physical thing, and it is like being dependent on a dummy. One of the ways to quit smoking is to carry a water bottle around with you so you can sip on it and it also gives you something to do with your hands.
Using equity release to buy partner out of home
