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The PM continues to demonstrate amazingly poor taste!

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CvD66 Wed 07-Feb-24 13:01:58

First he lets himself to be talked into a £1000 bet over his Rwandan policy with a TV presenter. Then at today’s PMQs he cracks a transgender joke in front of Brianna Ghey’s mother (sat in the gallery). Is he totally unable to ‘read the room’?

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 07-Feb-24 17:48:50

Thanks GG. I heard it on Sky News at lunchtime. I’m not in the habit of making false statements DAR.

And obviously you trust what the DM reports.

DaisyAnneReturns Wed 07-Feb-24 17:53:41

Galaxy

Discussing issues is not stirring hatred. It is a complex issue. Sunaks contribution is not helpful but the issues continue to need to be discussed.

No discussing issues is not. The way they are used to stir an already bubbling pot may be. I dont think Sunak was looking for a discussion.

Oldbat1 Wed 07-Feb-24 17:59:16

Still inexcusable as Sunak knew she was in the building. Then for him not to apologise when the labour mp gave him the opportunity (whilst asking her question). Sunak quite simply has no idea what goes on in “normal” lives. Why does he want to be PM i ask myself?

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 07-Feb-24 18:07:57

DaisyAnneReturns

^Brianna Ghey was killed because she was trans, a judge ruled today, as she sentenced the two 16-year-old serial killer obsessives who murdered her to life in prison.^

From the Daily Mail

It seems some still want to stir the hatred that led to this - including Rishi Sunak.

Here are the judge’s sentencing remarks. She did not say that Brianna was murdered because she was transgender. In part, maybe, but not solely ‘because’. As you know, I always go to the primary source and I would never trust the DM’s version of anything.

www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/Sentencing-Remarks-FINAL-2.2.24.pdf

DaisyAnneReturns Wed 07-Feb-24 18:12:34

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DaisyAnneReturns Wed 07-Feb-24 18:17:54

Oldbat1

Still inexcusable as Sunak knew she was in the building. Then for him not to apologise when the labour mp gave him the opportunity (whilst asking her question). Sunak quite simply has no idea what goes on in “normal” lives. Why does he want to be PM i ask myself?

To make money for his family by making useful Trade Agreements? It's hard to see what it could be Oldbat. He clearly isn't suited - even the other Tory MPs don't think so.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 07-Feb-24 18:21:52

Kindly don’t be so childish and insulting when I shorten your name to initials DAR.

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karmalady Wed 07-Feb-24 18:31:17

I have reported your post DAR

Sarnia Thu 08-Feb-24 08:49:40

nanaK54

Sarnia

He put his foot in it yesterday when he announced, without any clarification, that King Charles's cancer 'had been caught early on'.

This has been 'bugging' me too - does he know that?

According to the BBC News that night, the Palace had made no mention of where the cancer is or the stage it is at. It was reported they were none too pleased.

Mollygo Thu 08-Feb-24 09:14:44

Not a good time for Sunak to have mentioned that alongside all the other flip flops, but Starmer was in the wrong here.

He made it about Brianna.
He chose to make it about something that could upset Brianna’s mum if she was there.
I wish he’d plucked up the courage to say that he understands what a woman is, so Sunak couldn’t use it.
What is Starmer so afraid of?

Greta Thu 08-Feb-24 09:31:27

Sunak started this. I wish he would just answer the questions and stop deflecting. Does he think he is the opposition party? He immediately starts attacking Starmer and the labour party. I believe the Conservatives now have a new mantra: "They have no plan".

Doodledog Thu 08-Feb-24 09:36:30

I am not happy with Labour’s stance on trans issues and their intersection with women’s rights, but I think Starmer was in the right here.

Sunak’s comment was crass, and as I understand it Ms Ghey could have been in the gallery - neither of them knew that she had been held up. Sunak’s speech writer had fed him a ‘hilarious’ joke at Starmer’s expense (presumably written before it was known that Ms Ghey was planning to be there), and he wasn’t adaptable enough to go off-script and edit it as he went. That in itself doesn’t show high levels of intelligence or empathy, and I think it was right that he was pulled up for it.

To me it shows that Starmer is able to think quickly on his feet, and Sunak has to stick to a script regardless of changing circumstances. If you live by scoring points, you risk dying from your opponent scoring points I guess. Luckily this was another rather pointless spat at PMQs and not an exchange requiring quick thinking on the global stage. I also think he should have the grace to apologise to Brianna’s mother (who is, I suspect, well able to rise above it all anyway).

LizzieDrip Thu 08-Feb-24 09:37:25

Regardless of whether Mrs Ghey was in the public gallery or not, Sunak’s trivialising of the transgender issue by joking about it in order to ‘get at’ Starmer, is totally reprehensible. Sunak was not ‘discussing’ the issue - he was ridiculing it. The uncaring behaviour of Tory MPs seems to know no bounds. At a recent PMQs many of them laughed when Starmer recounted the situation of a man who worked in Iceland and was struggling financially. Why did they find that so funny - disgraceful behaviour! Shame on these people!

Doodledog Thu 08-Feb-24 09:37:28

Greta

Sunak started this. I wish he would just answer the questions and stop deflecting. Does he think he is the opposition party? He immediately starts attacking Starmer and the labour party. I believe the Conservatives now have a new mantra: "They have no plan".

And this is a very good (and more important) point too.

foxie48 Thu 08-Feb-24 09:55:57

I am totally sick of this constant point scoring and hearing the leaders and wannabe leaders of our country behaving like name calling schoolboys. Nothing that I heard of this spat gave me confidence that the country is (or will be) being run by intelligent compassionate people. The behaviour of those we have given great power to just gets worse.

LovesBach Thu 08-Feb-24 10:23:49

foxie48 Has it ever been different? When PMQT was first televised, I found the behaviour of MPs was unbelievable. I couldn't agree more; the silly sniping, name calling, point scoring - you do wonder how any business ever gets through the Commons. I had tickets for the Strangers Gallery on one occasion, so that my then young children could see democracy in action. We sat there for several hours watching MPs shouting, walking in and out, standing around the doors and the Speaker's chair talking while another MP was on his feet addressing the House; it was hardly a good lesson.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 08-Feb-24 10:40:49

I am getting to the point where I now think that PMQ’s has had its day.

It achieves nothing, neither front benches appear to know how to behave, and the party leaders use it as a form of oneupmanship.

Galaxy Thu 08-Feb-24 11:32:40

I would quite like there to be some adults present when we try to discuss complex issues. They seem to be in short supply in both parties.

Casdon Thu 08-Feb-24 11:35:43

They are in the House of Lords Galaxy.

NoraBone Thu 08-Feb-24 11:56:18

Motivated me to write to my MP (only the second time I've been so inclined). The remark was made as a cheap shot, a jibe at Labour Party and their "missed promises". My correspondence includes - To be so unaware (or uncaring) of what hurt and pain that “joke” must certainly cause the mother of the child that was brutally murdered can only demonstrate that Mr Sunak is entirely lacking in compassion or empathy.

It truly isn't important if Brianna's mother was there in person, although she'd certainly have been in the building. It was just a rubbish remark to make. In full -

“I think I counted almost 30 (missed promises from the Labour Party) in the last year: pensions, planning, peerages, public sector pay, tuition fees, childcare, second referendums, defining a woman – although in fairness that was only 99% of a U-turn. The list goes on but the theme is the same. It’s empty words, broken promises and absolutely no plan.”

And the laughing, sniggering masses behind Sunak - a bad day for the Conservative Party.

Callistemon21 Thu 08-Feb-24 12:25:53

Galaxy

I would quite like there to be some adults present when we try to discuss complex issues. They seem to be in short supply in both parties.

I was about to say the same.

It would be good to think that we had grownups in charge of the country. ☹
It's all very Yah boo sucks

Cossy Thu 08-Feb-24 12:39:51

Oreo

MaizieD
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I agree GrannyGravy and think I'm right that the fact she was trans did not motivate this appalling act.
Not according to the account I read. Trans was a contributory issue.
The girl who was convicted for the murder had a list of various other teenagers on a kill list, non were transgender.

Brianna was selected because she was considered “easy prey” and because she was vulnerable. Of course this was linked to her being transgender.

Whilst I don’t think Sunak meant to be in any way insulting to this family, I think he should have chosen his words more carefully, and, for goodness sake, how many more times are we going to drag up Starmer’s ill thought out answer to a ridiculous question? Our MPs on all sides should think more before they answer and frankly I’m sick and tired of all their jibes.

Cossy Thu 08-Feb-24 12:48:51

I’m also a little bemused about “broken promises” from an opposition party??

Poppyred Thu 08-Feb-24 13:42:59

I’m sure Brianna’s mum did not take Rishi Sunak’s the wrong way, she has more common sense. But hey ho, this is the way of the world now. Let’s take offence about anything and everything and score points against one another.
I’m sure that Starmer choosing to make the comment about Brianna is far more upsetting and totally unnecessary.