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Assisted dying bill passed.

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Sago Fri 29-Nov-24 14:31:14

I’m not surprised this bill was passed but in all honesty I really don’t know how I feel about the new legislation.

If I had been given the vote it would have been a tough call.

Are we playing God?

Galaxy Sat 30-Nov-24 12:05:22

And here we go. I confidently predict that in under 5 years time the scope will be widened.

Allira Sat 30-Nov-24 12:05:43

Grantanow

Good news. Leadbeater is to be congratulated. The Bill can be improved. In my opinion it is too restrictive: drop the 6 months prognosis requirement and the High Court judge.

DH commented that by the time a High Court judge had made a decision, it could be too late anyway.

It is something we ponder as we get older, particularly if we have seen loved ones suffering.

Rosie51 Sat 30-Nov-24 12:21:50

Grantanow

Good news. Leadbeater is to be congratulated. The Bill can be improved. In my opinion it is too restrictive: drop the 6 months prognosis requirement and the High Court judge.

This bill was passed on the basis of the very narrow band of people that would be eligible and the 'safeguards' it would have in place. Before it even becomes law you want those safeguards and conditions altered. Yet those of us with genuine concerns have been constantly told there would be no slippery slope, the safeguards were 'written in stone'.

ftm420 Sat 30-Nov-24 12:53:55

Mixed feelings here too, but in my mind, it's not about those witnessing the suffering, nor those administering palliative care (if you are lucky enough to find a place).

It has to be about the one who is actually suffering. Family and nurses can be as caring and compassionate as they like, but the sufferer is the one who needs to be able to call an end to it.

Grantanow Sat 30-Nov-24 14:21:54

If the Bill becomes law as I hope it will those who do not wish to use it for religious or other reasons can opt to die a natural death with whatever pain and indignities they can tolerate. It's not compulsory, merely permissive.

OldFrill Sat 30-Nov-24 14:42:22

nanna8

What a sick comment. I’m talking about large doses of morphine to terminally ill people here to alleviate their pain. It kills them. I am absolutely shocked at what you said.

You said -

I think ‘unofficially’ it has been happening for a while with seriously ill patients in their last few days but you are not meant to talk about it

So "unofficially" (without any regulation) someone can administer a lethal dose of drugs and that's not murder?

And you then stated that unofficial method of killing is preferable to regulated (legal) assisted dying/suicide.

I know nurses used to see off terminal patients, it was murder then and it's murder if it happens now. Compassion doesn't excuse illegal killing, it has to be regulated.

Freya5 Sat 30-Nov-24 15:39:42

OldFrill

nanna8

What a sick comment. I’m talking about large doses of morphine to terminally ill people here to alleviate their pain. It kills them. I am absolutely shocked at what you said.

You said -

I think ‘unofficially’ it has been happening for a while with seriously ill patients in their last few days but you are not meant to talk about it

So "unofficially" (without any regulation) someone can administer a lethal dose of drugs and that's not murder?

And you then stated that unofficial method of killing is preferable to regulated (legal) assisted dying/suicide.

I know nurses used to see off terminal patients, it was murder then and it's murder if it happens now. Compassion doesn't excuse illegal killing, it has to be regulated.

That's a terrible thing to say re Nurses. Increase of diamorphine is done incrementally to ease pain, not a deliberate injection to cause death , there is a huge difference. If I'd been asked to "murder" a patient,
I would have left a profession I loved.
Assisted suicide is the way to go here, as in Switzerland, done by patient themselves, or a machine, as in Switzerland. Not involving medical professionals to deliver the fatal dose. That is the easy way out, get someone else to do the dirty work.

Aveline Sat 30-Nov-24 15:55:45

What if the patient just isn't compus mentis enough to know what's going on or cope with the necessary waits for 2 doctors, a high court judge then two more weeks?

Oreo Sat 30-Nov-24 16:15:04

ftm420

Mixed feelings here too, but in my mind, it's not about those witnessing the suffering, nor those administering palliative care (if you are lucky enough to find a place).

It has to be about the one who is actually suffering. Family and nurses can be as caring and compassionate as they like, but the sufferer is the one who needs to be able to call an end to it.

I very much agree.There is still too much suffering and pain, good palliative care is a postcode lottery.
As long as good checks and balances are firmly in place then I think that having a choice in this matter near the end of life can only be a good thing.Even if a person decides not to use assisted dying they know it’s there which must be a comfort.
Having some control and dignity at this stage is crucial.

Fleurpepper Sat 30-Nov-24 17:16:12

Aveline

What if the patient just isn't compus mentis enough to know what's going on or cope with the necessary waits for 2 doctors, a high court judge then two more weeks?

Then it won't go ahead. Same as in Switzerland.

JaneJudge Sat 30-Nov-24 17:32:29

Hopefully it is quite specific and stays that way

Cossy Sat 30-Nov-24 17:43:50

Interesting concept, are we playing God

So when surgeons perform transplants, paramedics or doctors resuscitate people, or very premature babies are saved, is that playing God?

I’m very pleased this bill has progressed.

Iam64 Sat 30-Nov-24 19:51:56

Well said Cossy -

Allira Sat 30-Nov-24 20:08:00

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Fleurpepper Sat 30-Nov-24 20:19:40

Cossy

Interesting concept, are we playing God

So when surgeons perform transplants, paramedics or doctors resuscitate people, or very premature babies are saved, is that playing God?

I’m very pleased this bill has progressed.

Jehovah's Witnesses do refuse blood transfusions and organ donations, etc, for that very reason. At least they are consistent.

Allira Sat 30-Nov-24 22:30:19

Sorry, my previous post is on the wrong thread, I have asked for it to be deleted.

OldFrill Sun 01-Dec-24 01:15:45

Freya5

OldFrill

nanna8

What a sick comment. I’m talking about large doses of morphine to terminally ill people here to alleviate their pain. It kills them. I am absolutely shocked at what you said.

You said -

I think ‘unofficially’ it has been happening for a while with seriously ill patients in their last few days but you are not meant to talk about it

So "unofficially" (without any regulation) someone can administer a lethal dose of drugs and that's not murder?

And you then stated that unofficial method of killing is preferable to regulated (legal) assisted dying/suicide.

I know nurses used to see off terminal patients, it was murder then and it's murder if it happens now. Compassion doesn't excuse illegal killing, it has to be regulated.

That's a terrible thing to say re Nurses. Increase of diamorphine is done incrementally to ease pain, not a deliberate injection to cause death , there is a huge difference. If I'd been asked to "murder" a patient,
I would have left a profession I loved.
Assisted suicide is the way to go here, as in Switzerland, done by patient themselves, or a machine, as in Switzerland. Not involving medical professionals to deliver the fatal dose. That is the easy way out, get someone else to do the dirty work.

If stating the truth is terrible that's probably what nanna8 means when she says "but you are not meant to talk about it". The truth can be terrible but that should stop it being talked about.
I was, l thought, clearly meaning same time in the past, not present day. It wasn't via injection.

OldFrill Sun 01-Dec-24 01:16:18

*NOT stop it being talked about

Iam64 Sun 01-Dec-24 09:30:50

When a patient is clearly near the end of life, morphine is used to make them more comfortable and to ease their way.

Cossy Sun 01-Dec-24 09:34:51

Auntieflo

Having bone cancer, and the pain slowly increasing, I was happy to hear that this bill had been passed today.
I have a DNR ( do not resuscitate) form and amended by a Sue Ryder nurse that says I would welcome palliative care, and to be kept pain free.
I have to believe that my wishes will be followed, as I do not want to die, fighting pain.

thanksflowers

eazybee Sun 01-Dec-24 09:41:16

I believe MPs are already questioning the decision, as many were disappointed in the standard, and brevity of the debate, and the lack of questioning.
Too much emphasis on emotion, not enough discussion of harsh realities and consequences.
Hopefully there will be more stringent discussions and amendments about this very important issue before it is finally passed. It should not be rushed.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 01-Dec-24 09:44:48

I am seeing lots of doctors on line saying they will not take part in AD as it goes against the Hippocratic Oath.

Cossy Sun 01-Dec-24 09:45:14

Iam64

When a patient is clearly near the end of life, morphine is used to make them more comfortable and to ease their way.

Due to some errors made by our hospital my DH was discharged with sepsis, amongst other things, and no end of life plan.

She was more than ready to die.

Despite trying hard to contact the relevant people we “nursed” her alone from Wednesday to Sunday, and were so so grateful we had her prescribed liquid morphine, which kept her death relatively pain free. Nevertheless it was a terrible experience for all, she knew she was dying and the sepsis spread to her brain and her hands and feet turned black.

We did increase her morphine on the Sunday she died, it was all just so awful!

Cossy Sun 01-Dec-24 09:46:09

That should read DM! My mother, not my husband, who is alive and well and making me a cuppa!

Cossy Sun 01-Dec-24 09:47:29

GrannyGravy13

I am seeing lots of doctors on line saying they will not take part in AD as it goes against the Hippocratic Oath.

I think that’s commendable, and their choice, though I thought the oath was “do no harm” which I don’t consider assisted dying at the patient’s request “breaks”