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Norman Tebbit has died.

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Pantglas2 Tue 08-Jul-25 08:47:22

I had a lot of time for him, especially for his devotion to his wife following disablement.

Allira Tue 08-Jul-25 20:55:48

Iam64

I was on maternity leave, feeding my days old baby when news of the IRA bomb came on the tv screen. I dislike thatcher, her policies and had booed Tebbit when he spoke at a meeting during the Miners strike
All of that no longer mattered as the dreadful news unfolded. I admired Thstcher’s attempt to compose herself when she spoke in the immediate aftermath. I always admired the way Tebbit cared for his wife with such love and devotion
As for the terrorists, this bomb alienated then even further. Dreadful days work to attempt to murder the cabinet

Well said Iam64

Lord Tebbit has just died, it's a shame if this thread got derailed.

valdavi Tue 08-Jul-25 21:21:01

I really couldn't stand him when I was young.The older I got, the more I came to appreciate his integrity, courage & commonsense, even if it was misguided.
The bike story did show his attitude to the unemployed, there used to be the narrative about the "deserving" and the "undeserving" poor back then which was a very flippant judgement at a very difficult time for many people.

Doodledog Tue 08-Jul-25 21:25:07

The Thatcher years destroyed much of what I valued about GB, and NT was a big part of that. I will never agree with his politics, but I do see him as a decent man who clearly loved his wife, and raise a glass to him on his way to wherever he is headed.

Luckygirl3 Tue 08-Jul-25 21:26:00

Every death diminishes us all; and he is to be admired for his devotion to his wife.

But he aided and abetted Thatcher in the destruction of our society as a cohesive entity and I cannot forgive him for that.

Iam64 Tue 08-Jul-25 21:26:27

Yes, a decent man. One of those of whom it’s said, what yiu see is what yiu get

grumppa Tue 08-Jul-25 22:24:09

And irrespective of his actual politics, I found him to be a very good constituency MP.

I was present at possibly his first press conference after the Brighton bombing, when he was due to announce what eventually became the Financial Services Act. Just as he was about to start, a news camera light set fire to the pvc tiled ceiling. It was quickly extinguished, but the look on his face said it all: not another disaster!

M0nica Wed 09-Jul-25 09:26:53

I would never let any disagreement I had with someone on politics stop me knowing and respecting an honourable and decent man, who faced with disaster and the terrible injuries his wife then had to live with, showed what decent, honourable, upright and couragious meant.

Sparklefizz Wed 09-Jul-25 09:32:37

Hear hear M0nica

Grantanow Wed 09-Jul-25 12:53:00

RIP. He was a thoughtful man and cared greatly for his wife.

The loss of much of British industry was a tragedy for many but it was inevitable given its uncompetitiveness when compared with Chinese business and their export drive. I fear we have seen the end of significant economic growth despite government rhetoric.

Allsorts Wed 09-Jul-25 13:02:43

I echo what Monica has written. He was loyal and a man of integrity, few on the ground in politics.

Susieq62 Wed 09-Jul-25 13:54:37

I agree with all of the sentiments towards NT and his love of his wife. He looked after her in a sensitive, kind, compassionate way.
However, I can never forget the decimation placed upon our industrial base by Mrs T and her government which he was party to . Their behaviour towards the coal miners was despicable and many of these communities have never recovered. I feel very strongly that our decline as an industrial, energy making nation began with Mrs T and NT. That I will never forget or forgive
But rest quietly NT

Tokerer Wed 09-Jul-25 14:07:12

Perhaps if there had been any attempts at Peace and Reconciliation with Irish Republicans instead of internment without trial, shoot to kill policies and the mistreatment and torture of Irish political prisoners the IRA mainland bombing campaign would never have happened and his wife wouldn't have been injured.... That's between him and his conscience and the good lord.. There were no serious attempts at peace until Tony Blair came along. The Tories played a bigger part in all the killing than they care to remember...

Anniebach Wed 09-Jul-25 14:12:47

Quote Susieq62 Wed 09-Jul-25 13:54:37 However, I can never forget the decimation placed upon our industrial base by Mrs T and her government which he was party to . Their behaviour towards the coal miners was despicable and many of these communities have never recovered. I feel very strongly that our decline as an industrial, energy making nation began with Mrs T and NT. That I will never forget or forgive
But rest quietly NT

I can never forget what the Labour Party under Wilson did to
the miners, children and families of Aberfan, a mining village in South Wales

Grandmotherto8 Wed 09-Jul-25 14:48:10

He was unnecessarily unkind towards unemployed people. Suggesting that they relocate to get a job, totally lacking in empathy towards those without work. For jobless family people it is impossible to relocate for work. The expense of such an undertaking is immense and realistically only for single people or people with savings to fund such a move. Those for whom he suggested 'getting on your bike', are frequently tied to social housing, children's schools etc. Even if not relocating and 'just' cycling 20+ miles that he claimed his father did, relies on someone else to take the children to & from school. Jobless working class people have little opportunity for geographic mobility, unlike middle class jobless. Tebbit was a bully & Thatcher's enforcer, that's why she was so fond of him. In my eyes his care for his injured wife did not rehabilitate him, as no doubt it just involved him paying for care, nothing more.

Susieq62 Wed 09-Jul-25 14:49:56

Annie Bach I agree totally and those visions will never leave me !
That was one community
Thatcher and co decimated many many more by their policies

MayBee70 Wed 09-Jul-25 15:28:50

Grandmotherto8

He was unnecessarily unkind towards unemployed people. Suggesting that they relocate to get a job, totally lacking in empathy towards those without work. For jobless family people it is impossible to relocate for work. The expense of such an undertaking is immense and realistically only for single people or people with savings to fund such a move. Those for whom he suggested 'getting on your bike', are frequently tied to social housing, children's schools etc. Even if not relocating and 'just' cycling 20+ miles that he claimed his father did, relies on someone else to take the children to & from school. Jobless working class people have little opportunity for geographic mobility, unlike middle class jobless. Tebbit was a bully & Thatcher's enforcer, that's why she was so fond of him. In my eyes his care for his injured wife did not rehabilitate him, as no doubt it just involved him paying for care, nothing more.

Did I read that someone’s rent would cease to be paid for by the state after a couple of weeks if they lost their job making them homeless as well? I also remember earning related being stopped but I’m not sure when that happened although I’m sure I’d thought that, if my husband lost his job we would have at least be covered by that for 12 months ( I had worked at the Labour exchange at one time and was surprised at how many benefits no longer existed).

Buttonjugs Wed 09-Jul-25 16:10:21

Can’t bring myself to care. He was old and he was a Tory.

Madgran77 Wed 09-Jul-25 17:37:52

Grandmotherto8 In my eyes his care for his injured wife did not rehabilitate him, as no doubt it just involved him paying for care, nothing more.

That is a VERY naive and frankly unrealistic view of having a marital partner paralysed from the neck down at an event she was only present for because of his job!! Dear dear me!

Junglebub Wed 09-Jul-25 18:27:10

We desperately need politicians like him today. RIP to a thoroughly decent man.

Jockytaff Wed 09-Jul-25 18:42:23

Whether he was a "decent man" or not is subjective. I saw him as part of the Tory machine that was determined to make the working class poor, keep them poor & in their place. Many people shed many tears during his & Thatcher's "heyday". I won't be crying over that man.

Galaxy Wed 09-Jul-25 18:49:59

How weird to pop onto an 'obituary' thread and say you don't care. I must pop over to a games thread and say I dont like playing games.

Oreo Wed 09-Jul-25 18:54:27

M0nica

I would never let any disagreement I had with someone on politics stop me knowing and respecting an honourable and decent man, who faced with disaster and the terrible injuries his wife then had to live with, showed what decent, honourable, upright and couragious meant.

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Oreo Wed 09-Jul-25 18:55:04

Buttonjugs

Can’t bring myself to care. He was old and he was a Tory.

Charming!

Iam64 Wed 09-Jul-25 19:09:12

Oreo

M0nica

I would never let any disagreement I had with someone on politics stop me knowing and respecting an honourable and decent man, who faced with disaster and the terrible injuries his wife then had to live with, showed what decent, honourable, upright and couragious meant.

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I was no supporter of Mrs T, or Mr Tebbit. I was impressed by their courage in response to the terrorists attempt to kill the entire cabinet.
From my reading, Mr Tebbit stepped back in order to care for his wife, paralysed from the neck down in that horror, simply because she attended the conference in support of her husband.
I simply find it impossible to understand the need to come o to this thread and say things like “I can’t bring myself to care, he was old and he was a Tory”. Wow what a sentiment to express

Galaxy Wed 09-Jul-25 19:20:39

I know. There aren't many people I despise more than Owen Jones for example but I really hope that if God forbid anything happened to him I would have the decency not to pop onto an obituary thread and call him names.