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Would you turn your child in if they face the death penalty

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rafichagran Fri 12-Sept-25 17:12:58

I have just been reading a discussion on mumsnet about this and there are some strong opinions.
This discussion is in connection to the Charlie Kirk murder. I would not, I don't believe in state sanctioned murder, I could not send him to his death, and watch as they allow relatives to do in the states that have capital punishment on America, Utah does. Also emotion comes into it, it is my child.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 12-Sept-25 17:20:01

I think it would depend on the crime/s they had committed.

If they were premeditated, murder/s, mass shooting, torture I think I would have to.

theworriedwell Fri 12-Sept-25 17:26:56

No I wouldn't. I don't agree with the death penalty so not sure if I'd turn anyone in.

nanaK54 Fri 12-Sept-25 17:27:17

Not in a million years

GrannyGravy13 Fri 12-Sept-25 17:28:23

theworriedwell

No I wouldn't. I don't agree with the death penalty so not sure if I'd turn anyone in.

I do not agree with the death penalty however, I couldn’t live with myself if they went on to kill again due to my silence…

Galaxy Fri 12-Sept-25 17:29:15

But the risk is that they cause more deaths. So people would die because you hadn't done that.

theworriedwell Fri 12-Sept-25 17:31:02

The problem is if I turn them in and they are executed I couldn't live with that either. They will get executed, they might kill again so on balance I don't think I could.

ronib Fri 12-Sept-25 17:31:10

The father is a Republican and a police man. ??

theworriedwell Fri 12-Sept-25 17:32:07

I find the idea of state execution horrific, to me it is cold blooded murder.

woodenspoon Fri 12-Sept-25 17:33:14

Impossible to say unless you’re placed in that position. I can’t imagine what the father is going through having done it. He did the right thing of course.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Fri 12-Sept-25 17:33:31

Awful to contemplate isn’t it? But as a family you’d have to, surely? How could a family keep such a heinous act between themselves and ever hope to live a normal life. And what if similar occurred a second time? You’d never forgive yourself.
Fortunately this is all academic …

theworriedwell Fri 12-Sept-25 17:33:52

ronib

The father is a Republican and a police man. ??

So his politics and career are more important than his son? Wonder what made his son turn out the way he did.

woodenspoon Fri 12-Sept-25 17:34:27

theworriedwell

ronib

The father is a Republican and a police man. ??

So his politics and career are more important than his son? Wonder what made his son turn out the way he did.

What a thing to say. How can you possibly know that.

theworriedwell Fri 12-Sept-25 17:36:36

Well his son wasn't top of the agenda was he.

OldFrill Fri 12-Sept-25 17:40:44

Will the father claim the $100,000 reward

ronib Fri 12-Sept-25 17:42:54

The assassin could well be mentally ill.

Babs03 Fri 12-Sept-25 17:43:24

I couldn’t do it because I don’t support state sanctioned killing. But not sure how I would deal with an AC who might have committed something heinous.
Perhaps I would take my AC to a country with no extradition treaty with the US and no death penalty then turn my child in to the authorities.
Is hard.

Galaxy Fri 12-Sept-25 17:44:28

What on earth are you saying?

Galaxy Fri 12-Sept-25 17:45:40

Sorry that was for the worried well.

Doodledog Fri 12-Sept-25 17:45:42

No, I wouldn't.

Apart from not approving of the death penalty, as a mother I just couldn't do that.

What I would do about it, I just don't know, thank goodness. What a terrible position to be in.

eazybee Fri 12-Sept-25 17:46:55

I wondered about that.
I don't think I could.

theworriedwell Fri 12-Sept-25 17:50:32

Galaxy

What on earth are you saying?

I'm saying I wouldn't turn anyone in if I thought they'd be executed.

theworriedwell Fri 12-Sept-25 17:52:01

Babs03

I couldn’t do it because I don’t support state sanctioned killing. But not sure how I would deal with an AC who might have committed something heinous.
Perhaps I would take my AC to a country with no extradition treaty with the US and no death penalty then turn my child in to the authorities.
Is hard.

Do you think you'd tell them or would you have to trick them?

Galaxy Fri 12-Sept-25 17:54:36

But you said the son obviously wasn't the top of his agenda. I don't know what that means.
It is the wrong thing to do not to turn a child in if they commit a hideous crime. Putting morality aside, it is failing the child.

ronib Fri 12-Sept-25 17:54:38

Makes you an accessory.