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Allsorts Sun 19-Oct-25 06:16:14

On this thread in particular, there are those who want to be almost aggressive to those that don't hold their views. It's a discussion thread, people have differing views.

25Avalon Sun 19-Oct-25 17:06:06

I have met many people these days who openly state and believe that if enough people believe something it becomes a fact.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 19-Oct-25 17:11:42

25Avalon

I have met many people these days who openly state and believe that if enough people believe something it becomes a fact.

Blimey that really is scary!

Beechnut Sun 19-Oct-25 17:15:28

GrannyGravy13

25Avalon

I have met many people these days who openly state and believe that if enough people believe something it becomes a fact.

Blimey that really is scary!

Reminds me of something my sister once said about her gaslighting husband!

Beechnut Sun 19-Oct-25 17:16:47

Beechnut

GrannyGravy13

25Avalon

I have met many people these days who openly state and believe that if enough people believe something it becomes a fact.

Blimey that really is scary!

Reminds me of something my sister once said about her gaslighting husband!

Whoops…once said to me.

MayBee70 Sun 19-Oct-25 20:00:24

FriedGreenTomatoes2

I think society as a whole has become totally polarised.
Black or white. No grey areas.
Such strong feelings:
Brexit.
Trump.
Israel.
Islam.
Labour.
Irregular migration.
You say one thing and it upsets another these days. 🤷‍♀️
I used to be more opinionated, but these days much less so.

I think it started with Brexit ( or the run up to it). Imo this country ( and it’s people) hasn’t been the same since sad.

AGAA4 Sun 19-Oct-25 20:03:34

I agree "Maybee70* Brexit split the country and the cracks have not healed.

Galaxy Sun 19-Oct-25 20:19:53

I think it is that people now have the means to share their views and it is very shocking to some people that people hold different views to their own.

CariadAgain Sun 19-Oct-25 20:29:48

Galaxy

I think it is that people now have the means to share their views and it is very shocking to some people that people hold different views to their own.

There may well be an element of that for sure.

Back in my last city and before the Internet was widespread etc etc - and, if I'd been asked in say the 1980s for instance, what I thought people in Britain were like by and large - I'd have probably answered: "Many intelligent, a lot pretty liberal, most are middle-class, most have got good manners, most pretty open-minded and quite a few are political activists and overall live and let live".

Cue for decades later and living in small town in West Wales and the economy having changed a lot for the worse and politics having done some things I really do not approve of and I do have to literally look over my shoulder before I say anything to see if there's anyone standing nearby (as I've been leapt on and verbally bashed more than once for saying something no-one thought twice about back then and back there).

Caleo Mon 20-Oct-25 12:16:25

Galaxy

I think it is that people now have the means to share their views and it is very shocking to some people that people hold different views to their own.

Nice one Galaxy![smile}

Caleo Mon 20-Oct-25 12:17:26

smilemy poor eyesight is a problem for me

GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Oct-25 12:24:29

I never come across any discussions/gossip/mention of Brexit whilst going about my daily life other than on GN. 🤷‍♀️

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Mon 20-Oct-25 12:28:44

Me neither GG13 it’s old hat now.

Caleo Mon 20-Oct-25 12:30:48

I did.
The morning after the Referendum I was out for a dog walk and a friendly other dog walking woman came along and said"How are you?" I replied "I feel depressed about the Referendum result".

She accompanied me round the park explaining how the result was good for us all.

Homestead62 Mon 20-Oct-25 12:33:28

Ive to laugh at this. Gransnet has always had more than a few bullying posters, and there was either a pile- on to folk who disagreed with them or nothing was done. I don't get 'all the outrage' on here about aggressive posters as there has been more than a few. I very seldom post here.

GrannyGravy13 Mon 20-Oct-25 12:35:07

Caleo the day after, even the weeks and a couple of months after the referendum of course people were discussing it.

The referendum was 9yr 4mths ago, far more interesting and important things to discuss in 2025.

nanna8 Mon 20-Oct-25 12:43:27

If you are not a leftie and you don’t like Starmer - watch out. If you are a leftie and you don’t like Starmer - watch out.

Allira Mon 20-Oct-25 12:49:09

GrannyGravy13

Caleo the day after, even the weeks and a couple of months after the referendum of course people were discussing it.

The referendum was 9yr 4mths ago, far more interesting and important things to discuss in 2025.

For a while but it's like flogging a dead horse now.

MayBee70 Mon 20-Oct-25 12:57:41

Allira

GrannyGravy13

Caleo the day after, even the weeks and a couple of months after the referendum of course people were discussing it.

The referendum was 9yr 4mths ago, far more interesting and important things to discuss in 2025.

For a while but it's like flogging a dead horse now.

The results of that referendum are still affecting us so why should it no longer be mentioned? I know someone that works at a university and, even though like many university staff are losing their jobs they’ve had to open a whole new department just to deal with all the paperwork that Brexit has created.

Purplepixie Mon 20-Oct-25 12:59:19

I agree. I’ve been away for a while because I used to get my head bitten off for just being there!

Allira Mon 20-Oct-25 13:01:03

MayBee70

Allira

GrannyGravy13

Caleo the day after, even the weeks and a couple of months after the referendum of course people were discussing it.

The referendum was 9yr 4mths ago, far more interesting and important things to discuss in 2025.

For a while but it's like flogging a dead horse now.

The results of that referendum are still affecting us so why should it no longer be mentioned? I know someone that works at a university and, even though like many university staff are losing their jobs they’ve had to open a whole new department just to deal with all the paperwork that Brexit has created.

Yes, but we have to work with what we have now and try to achieve better relations with the EU in future instead of harking back with bitterness.

Allira Mon 20-Oct-25 13:03:08

Purplepixie

I agree. I’ve been away for a while because I used to get my head bitten off for just being there!

I will make you a Teflon cloak.

Norah Mon 20-Oct-25 13:05:29

GrannyGravy13

I never come across any discussions/gossip/mention of Brexit whilst going about my daily life other than on GN. 🤷‍♀️

Agreed.

Most have long ago moved on.

escaped Mon 20-Oct-25 13:35:23

With a name like yours, PurplePixie, I'm sure you could dust off the rottweilers!

Primrose53 Mon 20-Oct-25 13:59:01

There are a few posters on here who are extremely arrogant and love to talk down to people. In the main, I try to ignore them. They answer posts they disagree with by asking more questions to try to steer the post in other directions too.

petra Mon 20-Oct-25 14:18:23

Allira

MayBee70

Allira

GrannyGravy13

Caleo the day after, even the weeks and a couple of months after the referendum of course people were discussing it.

The referendum was 9yr 4mths ago, far more interesting and important things to discuss in 2025.

For a while but it's like flogging a dead horse now.

The results of that referendum are still affecting us so why should it no longer be mentioned? I know someone that works at a university and, even though like many university staff are losing their jobs they’ve had to open a whole new department just to deal with all the paperwork that Brexit has created.

Yes, but we have to work with what we have now and try to achieve better relations with the EU in future instead of harking back with bitterness.

I wonder how much sympathy there was for people who lost their jobs and companies / homes to cheap Labour when the eu allowed 10 countries to join in just one year.