Oreo
Well unlike you CariadAgain I wouldn’t allow myself as a mature woman to continue to let the views of my father influence me in any way once past being a child/teenager.Not that he ever tried to anyway.
We must all think for ourselves.
....and, to me, it's obvious that I would clearly have then gone on to think things through for myself as an adult!!!!!!!
So - I then decided I agreed - after my own thinking about it...
Just because I didn't mention the episodes where he queried the Armed Forces - whilst he was still in them. So I learnt that missing out on getting his due promotion in them meant he turned round to a high-up giving a speech about how to get promoted and went "Sir...please sir...I've done exactly what you said...three times now.....and I've still not got my promotion yet. Where is it?" and he got that promotion. His retirement from that brought him going after them (successfully) for extra pension because they had made him substantially deaf with their heavy gun noise - and then successfully guiding all his mates in the same position to get that money too.
Does that explain the main message I got from him was "You're intelligent too - so be a questioner..... and then, when you have questioned and succeeded - help other people do the same".