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BMJ defends FGM

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Flippinheck Tue 16-Dec-25 08:13:09

The world is in such a mess that I really thought I could no longer be shocked by anything. Until I read in today’s Daily Mail that the BMJ has published an article defending the barbaric practice of FMJ. Among other things it suggests that banning this awful mutilation of children is cultural suppression.
I am not someone who angers easily, nor do I often cry, but this is how I have started my day today. What is happening to our country?

Iam64 Tue 16-Dec-25 16:49:10

Discussion of this in my work setting led me to seriously question circumcision as practiced in some religions. Infant boys can’t give consent so should it be banned ? It’s painful mutilation. It’s religious and cultural.

fancythat Tue 16-Dec-25 16:56:14

. It’s religious and cultural

Do you mean both?
Or separately?

Nannee49 Tue 16-Dec-25 17:12:05

Surely we all do that notSpaghetti?Couldn't agree more Maremia

DaisyAnneReturns Tue 16-Dec-25 17:30:41

This is being widely misreported; the original source is far less extreme. If a story makes you angry instantly, that’s usually a sign to double-check it.

Rosie51 Tue 16-Dec-25 17:33:38

I know of two little boys who were circumcised (at different times) for medical reasons at ages 4 and 7. I'd hate for them to be regarded as 'mutilated'. Medical circumcision is quite separate and different to girls undergoing FGM that is done to prevent 'immorality' and to deny women sexual pleasure.

Galaxy Tue 16-Dec-25 17:35:47

I don't agree with circumcision but I view it very differently to fgm.

DaisyAnneReturns Tue 16-Dec-25 17:37:57

Just out of interest, has the OP apologised for not checking the report before upsetting others?

Oreo Tue 16-Dec-25 17:45:27

Galaxy

I don't agree with circumcision but I view it very differently to fgm.

I only support it for medical reasons, but it doesn’t reduce sexual pleasure.
Fgm does.

Mamie Tue 16-Dec-25 17:45:49

DaisyAnneReturns

Just out of interest, has the OP apologised for not checking the report before upsetting others?

I would expect the OP to ask for the thread title to be amended, because it is clearly incorrect and misleading.

MayBee70 Tue 16-Dec-25 17:51:45

Daily Mail click bait by the sound of it.

Galaxy Tue 16-Dec-25 17:55:30

There are some really interesting discussions on feminist forums happening at the moment, I do recommend people looking at them, it appears not possible to talk about the article here.

CariadAgain Tue 16-Dec-25 18:02:03

David49

Cultural suppression, there should be a lot more suppression of some of the culture of some migrant groups. We can do little about what goes on overseas, come to Britain you accept our standards.

Quite! "When in Rome....".

Reminds me I was going to go back and have a good look at that article later...though my first thought was/is "You do know you are Western or living in the West do you?" about anyone (academics or otherwise) saying anything other than total/outright condemnation of this awful practice. You don't do intellectual discussions about evil.

Anyone's position on this should be "How awful? How to help the victims of this heal their bodies as best they can - and DEAL WITH anyone they know that helped cause that to happen to them". There should be no forgiveness - ever - for anyone who played a helping part in doing this to anyone. If it was your own mother = same applies....ie if she is still in the life of a victim = chuck her out of it....she's not fit to be your/anyone else's mother.

Maremia Tue 16-Dec-25 18:06:26

We are talking about the article? Have I missed something?

Galaxy Tue 16-Dec-25 18:11:01

No we are mostly being told that we can't possibly critically think about the article because of the newspapers it is in. It is fine the discussion us happening elsewhere.

Maremia Tue 16-Dec-25 18:13:27

From what you have seen of the article, do you think the BMJ is defending the appalling practice of FGM?

CariadAgain Tue 16-Dec-25 18:13:33

Iam64

FGM has been illegal in the UK since 1985. Health and social workers have clear safeguarding responsibilities. They walk the tight rope of attempting to work with communities where if a girl isn’t subjected to this barbaric practice, she and her parents, siblings may be ostracised.
This academic article adds to the existing debate on reducing with the aim of ending it. Children may be taken ‘on holiday’ where the FGM takes place

Of course the BMJ isn’t approving. It’s easy to jump up and down condemning the practice, more difficult to stop it.

I hadnt realised that - ie being ostracised for refusing to be cruel/primitive like that.

Now wondering if anyone will explain why the heck anyone would be bothered about being ostracised? Who wants to know anyone that would be like that anyway? If someone who goes in for such bad acts went "Shut up and do what we say - or we'll ostracise you" = why wouldn't anyone/everyone reply to that threat with "Go right ahead....I'm not bothered whether anyone with views like that never speaks a word to me again. Off you toddle then....'Bye".

If the whole world decides to ostracise someone for being in the right = why would it bother that correct person? As long as they manage one way or another to have a roof over their head and food on the table = they're sorted then. They can manage without people if the only ones available are not suitable company for them.

fancythat Tue 16-Dec-25 18:15:03

^A recent paper in its Journal of Medical Ethics (JME) critiqued the global anti-FGM campaign for potential harms like stigmatization and cultural insensitivity, but it did not endorse or defend the practice itself.
^

I have trouble with this.

Many many things can be dismissed using "clever" words.

Like saying, go ahead and do what you want if it is your "culture".

foxie48 Tue 16-Dec-25 18:16:56

I don't think many have actually read the article, so it's rather difficult to discuss it. Most reactions are a result of people's response to what has been written in the media and tbh I personally don't have an issue in discussing that but isn't that a rather different topic??

Galaxy Tue 16-Dec-25 18:18:55

Yes I have said many times that it is about the creep of language. Obviously this sort of thing doesn't start with someone saying oh yes fgm is a good thing, they tend to be more subtle than that.

Maremia Tue 16-Dec-25 18:26:03

Well, the premise of the post is that the BMJ has published an article defending FGM.
Now, either it has, or it has not.
As you say, probs not everyone has actually read the printed words.

However, this being a GN Thread, the focus seems to have morphed into a discussion around the actual 'practice', with which I get the impression, most of us disagree.
And now other issues of cultural 'practices' have been raised.
The OP is busy elsewhere and has not been back to comment and/or amend the Thread head.
For me, there has been some new information about FGM.

Iam64 Tue 16-Dec-25 18:52:32

It’s increasingly difficult to discuss ‘difficult issues ‘ on gransnet because complex issues seem inevitably to result in the demand for simple answers
Like FGM is bad, arrest any mother who doesn’t run away with her daughter to prevent the barbaric practice. Never mind that mum doesn’t want her or her daughter to step away from all they know.
Who will feed them keep them safe?

Maremia Tue 16-Dec-25 19:07:38

Yes, if the issue was 'simple' it would most likely have been resolved by now.

Cossy Tue 16-Dec-25 19:09:26

Well, all I can s WTAF! Have they seen the state of these poor poor girls after this (so called) surgery! It’s cruel, barbaric, mysogonistic and just appalling!

I’m betting it was a female doctor who said this and if it was then *********

😱😱🤯🤯

Cossy Tue 16-Dec-25 19:11:59

Sorry, I really wish there was an edit button on here for people like me who have knee jerk reactions and litter my comments with typos!!

GrannyGravy13 Tue 16-Dec-25 19:16:44

I am equally against circumcising 8 day old baby boys in the name of religion

FGM is barbarism to us, but is as normal in some tribes as circumcision is to Judaism.