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Is it wrong to identify as something you aren’t?

(264 Posts)
theworriedwell Mon 05-Jan-26 20:49:51

Magenta8

I think people who pretend to be Rear Admirals are fairly harmless in comparison with people who pretend to be medical doctors* or qualified nurses.

I believe some people pretend to have PhDs or DPhils but that again seems relatively harmless.

Of course, it is morally wrong to pretend to have qualifications you don't have or to be something you are not.

*eg Gillian McKeith

I'm not bothered if someone says they are a medical doctor unless they start treating/examining people. I'm not sure what harm he would cause saying he's a rear admiral, I don't suppose he was commanding a fleet of ships.

Allira Mon 05-Jan-26 20:40:52

I believe some people pretend to have PhDs or DPhils but that again seems relatively harmless.
Depends on the job.
I worked with someone who did that very many years ago.

Allira Mon 05-Jan-26 20:38:06

No, he didn't pretend to be a medical professional but he is still guilty.

However, there must be something wrong with someone to want to pretend to be someone important who has earned so many medals, standing alongside veterans who had earned their medals. He carried a huge sword, apparently, and his medals included a DSO, all bought online.

He may get a fine of £500.

Magenta8 Mon 05-Jan-26 19:15:58

I think people who pretend to be Rear Admirals are fairly harmless in comparison with people who pretend to be medical doctors* or qualified nurses.

I believe some people pretend to have PhDs or DPhils but that again seems relatively harmless.

Of course, it is morally wrong to pretend to have qualifications you don't have or to be something you are not.

*eg Gillian McKeith

Fallingstar Mon 05-Jan-26 19:09:54

Oreo

I suppose it was a bit of fantasy that went too far.He had quite a prestigious past didn’t he and maybe in retirement he needed to continue to be admired? Am certain he really regrets it, not a big fine really but it’s the shame of it that will haunt him.

I agree with this. It was said he was filled with remorse. Obviously was wrong on several levels but I do think he now sincerely regrets it.

Rocketstop2 Mon 05-Jan-26 19:09:37

BlueBelle

What about identifying as a cat ?

That is an insult to cats, and in fact I've heard they are instructing solicitors to act against anyone who attempts to impersonate them !

GrannyGravy13 Mon 05-Jan-26 19:08:51

BlueBelle

What about identifying as a cat ?

Too many people are under the impression if they say they are XYZ then the rest of us have to go along with their delusions…

Fallingstar Mon 05-Jan-26 19:06:30

I don’t think I could get away with identifying as a cat, our cat ‘Bags’ - original name Bagpuss but he wasn’t having that - would never allow it, indeed he isn’t totally okay with us identifying as humans.
😂

Oreo Mon 05-Jan-26 19:04:35

I suppose it was a bit of fantasy that went too far.He had quite a prestigious past didn’t he and maybe in retirement he needed to continue to be admired? Am certain he really regrets it, not a big fine really but it’s the shame of it that will haunt him.

Oreo Mon 05-Jan-26 19:02:14

🙀 harmless if stupid.

BlueBelle Mon 05-Jan-26 18:58:48

What about identifying as a cat ?

eazybee Mon 05-Jan-26 18:57:19

Of course it is wrong.
It is a lie.

Blossoming Mon 05-Jan-26 18:56:24

Yes there is a lesson here but will anybody hear it?

Mollygo Mon 05-Jan-26 18:54:58

Jonathan Carley has upset people by dishonestly identifying as Rear Admiral and wearing apparel to support his claims.

He’s been arrested and fined.

The judge said your actions totally disrespected all those who have fought
and those legally entitled to claim the title.

Is there a lesson here?