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Shocking Stabbing

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Cossy Sun 19-Jul-26 18:07:09

This lady was asleep in her bed, with her husband and with her young baby, in their own home.

“A man has been charged with murder after a woman was fatally stabbed in Hayes, west London.

The Metropolitan Police said officers were called just before 08:00 BST to a property on Uxbridge Road on Sunday where they found Kirandeep Kaur with stab wounds.

Despite efforts of emergency services, the 24-year-old was pronounced dead at the scene.

A man in his 20s was found outside the property, also with stab injuries. He remains in hospital and his condition is not considered to be life threatening.

Daniel Sean James, 44, of Mercer Place, Pinner, was also charged on Monday with attempted murder and possession of a bladed article. He is due to appear at Willesden Magistrates' Court on Tuesday”

Someone on Facebook has asked “where is the cold dark rage”

He’s not advocating violence, but he’s questioning why this doesn’t meet the narrative of being outraged.

What is happening in our country and in our world?

Dickens Mon 20-Jul-26 14:35:16

As a woman, I am horrified that another woman with her baby beside her, can be slaughtered in her own bed in her own home, and with her husband beside her. Because, again - as a woman - that makes me fear for all women. If we cannot be safe in our own homes, then we are - in a so-called civilised society - effectively, enslaved as a biological sex.

Oreo

I would say that all GN members that I have seen ‘seek peace between cultures’ .

I agree with you there.

However, there is (some) media bias (I'm speaking generally) when there is a tragedy among the immigrant community, and it is a recognised documented phenomenon among media analysts - The 'missing white woman' syndrome.

Minority communities frequently experience a sense of secondary isolation when horrific crimes against them fail to capture sustained national attention.
(that's from Google AI which I consulted because I'd heard of the above syndrome but didn't really know anything about it).

... but my concern is still about the safety of women and girls at a time when - it appears - they, we, are less safe than we have been for decades.

That baby will never know its mother, and I'd imagine the husband's life will be devastated, too.

Maremia Mon 20-Jul-26 14:47:46

Yes, let's all remind future Thread Posters that we 'seek peace between cultures' as Oreo suggests.

Galaxy Mon 20-Jul-26 15:29:56

Of course shouting far right isn't at all divisive.

Wyllow3 Mon 20-Jul-26 19:30:10

As regards naming left and right ie how matters work out on the political and press stages it depends on the basic of the discussion. The O/P alludes to "cold dark rage" and this is used by a certain POV politically.

Currently point being made as regards women, people are in agreement, there is no need to go into political analysis, unless protective measures for women are discussed and political opinions as to the 'how" or "importance of" is being discussed.

Wyllow3 Mon 20-Jul-26 22:07:29

There's shouting and naming, as per in the parallel thread on the Tate Brothers.

The one lesson I learnt when as a newbie I explored womens lives and hisotries as a feminist in the 1970's is

"the personal is political"

and this applies to most areas of our society - there is little that is not political in the broadest sense, and most certainly the nature of crimes against and by people of different ethnicities is a very political area indeed.

M0nica Tue 21-Jul-26 07:06:08

I think people are over intereting this case.

Looking at the facts of the case, the assailant kicked at the front door, broke in, went upstairs and stabbed someone in the bed.

There is no evidence that he checked who was in the bed, that he chose one person or other. It was after dark so he could see very little.He the jumped out of the window and broke his ankles. Now that suggests tto me someone, either seriously mentally ill or high on some substance.

There is no evidence so far that he chose to stab the woman in the bed rather than the man. He would need to have turned the light on and pulled the bedclothes off then gone round the other side of the bed, if the person he first revealed was the wrong gender. Probably if they had been sleeping on the other sides of the bed, it would have been the man who was killed not the woman.

Now that this country is so multicultural, especially in big cities and towns, random killings are bound to become more ethnically diverse, just by chance as from any intent.

Dickens Tue 21-Jul-26 07:27:15

M0nica

I think people are over intereting this case.

Looking at the facts of the case, the assailant kicked at the front door, broke in, went upstairs and stabbed someone in the bed.

There is no evidence that he checked who was in the bed, that he chose one person or other. It was after dark so he could see very little.He the jumped out of the window and broke his ankles. Now that suggests tto me someone, either seriously mentally ill or high on some substance.

There is no evidence so far that he chose to stab the woman in the bed rather than the man. He would need to have turned the light on and pulled the bedclothes off then gone round the other side of the bed, if the person he first revealed was the wrong gender. Probably if they had been sleeping on the other sides of the bed, it would have been the man who was killed not the woman.

Now that this country is so multicultural, especially in big cities and towns, random killings are bound to become more ethnically diverse, just by chance as from any intent.

You could be right MOnica - I'm reacting to the headline news... another woman dying at the hands of a man.

We don't know the exact circumstances of the attack and it's quite possible it was purely random.

So, yes - maybe I've jumped the gun. Other women will, though, be fearful obviously.

I was also attempting to point out that, for me, the ethnicity of the poor victim and the perpetrator were not the main concern.

Wyllow3 Tue 21-Jul-26 08:24:33

I can see that, its just the knowledge if it had been the other way around what the headlines would have been.

But I do agree it will be found a very disturbed mind at work here indeed.

Galaxy Tue 21-Jul-26 08:35:01

If there is no need to go into political analysis then why would politics be mentioned frequently. Again my belief is these type of threads are not to do with violence against women but to make a political point.

Tuliptree Tue 21-Jul-26 08:53:05

Galaxy

If there is no need to go into political analysis then why would politics be mentioned frequently. Again my belief is these type of threads are not to do with violence against women but to make a political point.

But surely it can be both? In fact, how can it not be?

Wyllow3 Tue 21-Jul-26 09:05:35

The same thought jumped into my head before you posted. It is about both.

My mum was had a bedroom intruder. She woke to find a man riffling through her bedroom dressing table.

He got in through some very easy old French windows. This will be when she was 78 or so in the 1990's

She actually sat up and shouted angrily! He started to leave with what he had found and she caught his coat going down the stairs and he hit her nose and ran out. Sis immediately went unto see her and had loads of proper locks and an alarm installed. Lots of police kindness.

She wasn't scared after, (! amazing) and all the neighbours were so kind, but she was gutted by the loss of irreplaceable treasured photos in her purse

Galaxy Tue 21-Jul-26 09:12:31

You just said there is no need to go into political analysis wyllow.

Wyllow3 Tue 21-Jul-26 09:56:03

I'll clarify then if I wasn't clear

we can look at all the angles
political
protecting women
personal or family experiences

Different posters may chose a different focus.

The political focus is because attacks are being not only analysed politically but if the perpetrator is non white home grown then it will appear in all the headlines and some will assert, "they are all like that or have a tendency to be so"

The women's side is as stated above and is equally important.

Personal accounts and experiences bring another but interesting slant on the topic.

(I'm not going to going to try and make the points again, I'm sure I've explained enough)

Galaxy Tue 21-Jul-26 09:57:50

Yes I just don't agree with you.