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So Harry and family are coming back!

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MartavTaurus Wed 19-Aug-26 22:31:31

Interesting.
And the children starting school here.

Iam64 Thu 20-Aug-26 20:34:30

What do I think? I continue to be stunned by the level of anger expressed by some towards two people they’ve never met. How thoughts and feelings are projected on to them. The complete disregard for human compassion and acceptance that family dynamics are complex. Estrangement is hugely painful for anyone involved. Each participant is likely to have a different view and as Her Maj commented, recollections my vary
Demonising one side or another is not constructive. Simplifying complex problems enhances unhealthy polarisation

Aveline Thu 20-Aug-26 20:39:22

They demonised themselves by that book and that interview. Naming their daughter with the Queen's personal and private name was beyond the pale. The sheer crassness. angry

GoldenAge Thu 20-Aug-26 21:05:23

It's the money issue. The children need schooling (of a kind that will protect them from all those bad people that their mother seems to think are out to get them as a family) and how can the parents who are supposed to provide do that when they have a large court bill, a mansion in Montecito and a house in Portugal to maintain - which I believe they intend to do. This is all so calculated - part of a Netflix movie.

CanadianGran Thu 20-Aug-26 21:08:19

I do hope they can have a relatively quiet life in some big country house behind a large gate, but I don't think your press will let them.

JPB123 Thu 20-Aug-26 21:22:27

I wish them well and hope they have a lovely ,contented life here in UK

MarieElla Thu 20-Aug-26 21:23:44

Cossy grin

Luckygirl3 Thu 20-Aug-26 21:34:16

Iam64

What do I think? I continue to be stunned by the level of anger expressed by some towards two people they’ve never met. How thoughts and feelings are projected on to them. The complete disregard for human compassion and acceptance that family dynamics are complex. Estrangement is hugely painful for anyone involved. Each participant is likely to have a different view and as Her Maj commented, recollections my vary
Demonising one side or another is not constructive. Simplifying complex problems enhances unhealthy polarisation

I could not agree more.

I have always been at a complete loss to understand why normally kind and decent people find it necessary to vilify this young family whom they have never met.

What need does it fulfill?

Let us wish them well and hope that their family disagreements will sort themselves out over time and that their children can enjoy living here in the UK and settle in their schools happily. It is what we would wish for any child.

We all know and understand that family rifts are distressing and that we can never truly get inside the complexities as outsiders. We need to be understanding. Jumping on the vitriol bandwagon has no purpose and achieves nothing positive.

Macaydia Thu 20-Aug-26 22:15:59

Agree 100 % Iam64 and Luckygirl3

MartavTaurus Thu 20-Aug-26 22:44:23

You have to feel a bit sorry for their dog, the black labrador. One minute he is rescued from a shelter and goes to live in Windsor, then he is carted off to Vancouver, shortly followed by a move to California, and now returning to the UK.
It's a dog's life!

Sarnia Thu 20-Aug-26 22:46:46

MartavTaurus

You have to feel a bit sorry for their dog, the black labrador. One minute he is rescued from a shelter and goes to live in Windsor, then he is carted off to Vancouver, shortly followed by a move to California, and now returning to the UK.
It's a dog's life!

Perhaps he can make friends with Larry the cat at No. 10. He has seen enough PM's come and go in his time. They could compare notes.

Dickens Thu 20-Aug-26 22:47:02

GrannyGravy13

I am definitely not a fan of Harry’s behaviour regarding his tell all book or the interviews that he and Meghan have done. No need to wash one’s dirty linen in public.

I am a fan of family, and they have an English family who do not know their children.

We are told time and time again that the family unit is important for children, especially grandparents, whether they happen to be the King and Queen of the U.K. is irrelevant they are still granny and grandpa.

Kudos to you GG13 - critical, but not spiteful. smile

Dickens Thu 20-Aug-26 23:34:41

According to Google AI - Just days ago, it was revealed that the US State Department is actively reviewing and withholding over 1,000 pages of internal documents regarding Harry's visa file.

The conservative think tank The Heritage Foundation has spent years fighting aggressive legal battles against the Department of Homeland Security and State Department to forcibly unseal Harry’s immigration records.

During public interviews and rallies, Donald Trump repeatedly targeted Harry’s status, warning that if Harry lied on his application, "appropriate action" would be taken, stating, "He would be on his own if it was down to me."
Trump later commented that he would "leave him alone - for now"... However, that leniency is entirely discretionary and temporary, keeping the threat actively hanging over Harry's head.

Harry admitted to taking a concoction of illegal drugs - US immigration law takes drug history very seriously. Even admission without a conviction technically allows for exclusion or visa revocation based solely on a formal admission of drug use.

Raising children in California under the continuous, looming threat of an immigration audit, public disclosure of private files, or sudden visa revocation by a hostile presidential administration would create an incredibly stressful environment for the family.

... that's Google's AI take on the matter - and mine, that's why I researched it. My guess is that Harry does not want to be at the mercy of an administration run by a man whose whims can change from day to day. And Trump is hostile towards Meghan - she has publicly criticised him in the past.

hollysteers Thu 20-Aug-26 23:35:54

Well now the £2 I pay towards the royal family is worth it, it’s the only soap opera I watch. (Rubs hands in glee).

NotSpaghetti Fri 21-Aug-26 05:31:56

Heard on the radio she's got an acting contract here in the UK.

I assume that is why they are here - temporarily at least.

Calendargirl Fri 21-Aug-26 06:47:07

NotSpaghetti

Heard on the radio she's got an acting contract here in the UK.

I assume that is why they are here - temporarily at least.

Wonder if it’s Corrie?

Could do with a long lost relative from the US turning up, and causing drama.

And having an affair with someone, maybe she could be Steve McDonald’s next wife?

David49 Fri 21-Aug-26 07:09:20

NotSpaghetti

Heard on the radio she's got an acting contract here in the UK.

I assume that is why they are here - temporarily at least.

There is no doubt the publicity around having her maybe staring in a UK soap would be valuable to any film production. Seeing her on the screen every day would be a delight for the republicans and a constant irritation for the Royals.

If the return to acting is true any ideas of a private life can be dismissed and security will be a major issue.

Olivebranch Fri 21-Aug-26 07:25:51

I can only think this is going to be bad pr for the royal family. I hope Megan and Harry don’t finish what Diana started— the end of the royal family.
Total disruptors.

Smileless2012 Fri 21-Aug-26 07:51:51

I don't agree Olivebranch. They've spent the last 6 years trying to destroy the reputation of the royal family and the only real damage they've caused is to themselves.

Just like anyone else David, if she were to be given a role in a UK soap, they don't have to watch it do they; I certainly wont be. Would a popular and loved soap opera want to risk giving a role to someone who so many dislike? I doubt it.

greyfur16 Fri 21-Aug-26 08:08:30

Ilovedogs22

greyfur16

It's sad, they could have quietly done so much good.

I still think they will do good & prove the neh-sayers wrong. I'm not a royalist but I think Harry is very similar to Diane, he has that special something, a warm human touch & I'm sure he'll come-into his own. I really hope so anyway. 🤞

Perhaps he could use his special something on people other than himself.
Do something meaningful and kind.

Sadgrandma Fri 21-Aug-26 08:46:46

Perhaps she’ll turn up in Eastenders or Coronation Street!🤣🤣

Estrellita Fri 21-Aug-26 09:03:53

Good !

Usedtobeblonde Fri 21-Aug-26 09:06:12

Do you attach any credence to the rumours that they worry what D Trump may do about them as he gets mote and more irrational?
Questions apparently about the Prince’s visa application.

Estrellita Fri 21-Aug-26 09:07:25

What happened tonBobby Eling in the shower?

Boz Fri 21-Aug-26 09:07:32

I am afraid the press by their obsession will go on highlighting the returners rather than those doing their royal, tedious responsibilities day in and day out.

That is the tragedy here - the undermining of the few royal active family members.

Estrellita Fri 21-Aug-26 09:08:17

What happened to Bobby Ewing in the shower?