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Infuriated by this man's attitude

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TerriBull Fri 26-Jun-26 11:20:28

Did anyone see this news story yesterday where a man blocked an 80 year old lady from using the handrail when going up the stairs from a tube station. Inexplicably he'd positioned himself against it to relax allegedly confused Hand rails are not there for that purpose. When she asked him to move because she needed the support of the rail he refused to with this comment "you can go around you've got legs!" at which point she told him she was 80 and needed the support of the handrail. I mean that's what they're actually for you moron! He then told her he was filming the interaction between them. Good! showed him up for the arse he is. At least he's been massively criticised on X for showing the clip, although it's hard to understand what makes people want to upload such material. I just hope he's outed.

My God if I was his mother watching that, I'd go the full Thatcher and handbag him for being so rude, obstructive, bloody minded and disrespectful to an elderly woman.

One day he might reach 80 and require the steadying influence of a handrail and his words may, if there's such a thing as karma, come back to haunt him when he's been obstructed hmm

TerriBull Fri 26-Jun-26 11:21:39

been being

ViceVersa Fri 26-Jun-26 11:48:33

It's not even the fact that he wanted her to move - which is bad enough - but filming it and plastering it on social media too! What happened to common decency and respect for others? I'm a lot younger than 80, but at the moment I've got one foot in a medical boot/shoe thingy because of torn ligaments and I would absolutely need to hold a handrail to hobble up or down stairs. I'm not one for wishing ill on others, but I hope karma bites him on the backside and he finds out one day just what it is like to need a bit of assistance or accommodation!

Chestnut Fri 26-Jun-26 11:50:48

I saw it and agree with every word you say. Horrible ignorant man who has been heavily criticised, so has maybe had a dose of karma already! 🤞

You really can't understand what goes on in some people's heads, blocking an elderly woman for absolutely no reason. A normal human response would be to move, it's basic politeness which should be an instant reaction in your head. Unfortunately lots of young people's heads are messed up by drugs, so who knows what they think.

TerriBull Fri 26-Jun-26 11:59:13

Since breaking an arm I do now favour a handrail for stability.

To move out of the way so she could have had clear access, just a basic consideration.

Elegran Fri 26-Jun-26 12:49:34

I expect she reacted the same way I would have - shocked into saying too little, and thinking of all the good answers when it was too late.

Maybe we should write our own script and memorise it, ready for any similar situation, telling him exactly what breed of selfish, arrogant arsehole he is! Followed by telling him (even if it wasn't quite true) exactly WHY we needed to hold on to the handrail and the reason the handrail is there in the first place - not for him to drape himself artistically over, but so that older people could get a bit of help. Adding that if we didn't hold on, our disintegrating hip joints would be unable to support us climbing these steps and we would probably fall and knock him over as we gasp for breath because of our COPD, and cause someone to call an ambulance and the police, who would not find him amusing.

The other side is that the internet is full of little videos and "readers' stories" which tend to tell very simplistic tales where one person is the villain and the other is the victim. The villain/villainess is a boss/mother-in-law/landlord , who is trying to take the credit for the employee's work/gaslight a daughterinlaw/get a tenant unfairly evicted. That video may have been faked to raise outrage and get clicks to monetise someone's account.

NotSpaghetti Fri 26-Jun-26 12:56:41

Anyone have a link??

NonnaW Fri 26-Jun-26 13:08:01

Quite apart from the lady’s need and right to hold the handrail, I spent a few years working for a company that insisted everyone should hold handrails for safety. This included directors down to apprentices, all ages. I still automatically do this.

M0nica Fri 26-Jun-26 13:09:46

You are all giving this person the 15 minutes of fame they wanted.

Charleygirl5 Fri 26-Jun-26 13:15:42

I am 82, partially sighted with mobility problems. I need to hold on to the right-hand rail. I am afraid I would have used my stick where the public wouldn't see the damage, but he would feel it!!!

That station is very close to where I live!

BlueBelle Fri 26-Jun-26 13:17:45

I doubt he’s reading Gransnet Monica and if he was he d see some rather ‘anti him’ posts

ViceVersa Fri 26-Jun-26 13:19:58

M0nica

You are all giving this person the 15 minutes of fame they wanted.

I very much doubt he's on GN!