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I wouldn't say brave

(16 Posts)
NfkDumpling Fri 29-Aug-14 07:11:55

Brave would relate more to Penguin's picture. Or perhaps foolhardy.

MiceElf Fri 29-Aug-14 06:51:06

TBH it looks remarkably like the zip wire in our local playground which the grandchildren can't be prised off.

Eloethan Thu 28-Aug-14 22:39:44

I would be truly terrified, and if I or anyone I knew had the nerve to do this, I would consider it extremely brave. But I suppose these girls see it as a necessary and perfectly normal way of getting from one place to another. Perhaps not brave but still pretty impressive I think.

Galen Thu 28-Aug-14 20:55:54

No way! I hate heights. Don't even like looking at my feet if I've my glasses on.

Lilygran Thu 28-Aug-14 20:07:57

Completely agree with you, * bags* shock. Wouldn't it be interesting to see something on the lines of 'where children sleep' about travelling to school? There must be a lot of children who have a long and arduous trek to get there.

janerowena Thu 28-Aug-14 11:47:07

Or Pedants' Corner, even! grin

janerowena Thu 28-Aug-14 11:46:29

No, this is pedant's corner. Therefore the point is the misuse of a word. They should have used the word you used - 'Determined'.

Scaredycat1 Thu 28-Aug-14 11:27:37

I think we're missing the point here. It's a potentially dangerous crossing given the climatic and other difficulties in Nepal. What it does show is the girls' determination to get a education.

janerowena Thu 28-Aug-14 11:27:33

I feel the same way when I see headlines about children with illnesses or disabilities they have often had from birth. Newspapers always refer to them as 'brave'. No, they aren't. They have no choice and know no different. They are just getting on with life and seeing it through a child's eyes.

MiniMouse Thu 28-Aug-14 11:22:52

I agree that 'brave' is constantly overused and misused. Slebs are 'brave' because they've owned up to something spurious, such as admitting to having botox or similar.

It annoys me that words lose their punch because of all this - think of awesome, which used to mean takes your breath away/wonderment, now it's just an everyday word that's completely lost the scale of how impressive something is.

Could rant on, but I must be brave and go into town . . .

penguinpaperback Thu 28-Aug-14 11:19:52

Ah at first I thought you must be referring to this pic, apparently this saves thirty mins on the walk. I would go the long way round.
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/picturegalleries/picturesoftheday/9024727/Pictures-of-the-day-19-January-2012.html

KatyK Thu 28-Aug-14 10:35:45

Brave is much mis-used these days.

MiceElf Thu 28-Aug-14 10:13:01

Looks like fun to me! When I was in Uganda I had to cross a much scarier bridge than that one as I had to visit students on school placement. It consisted of three ropes and a very narrow plank across a deep gorge. When I hesitated Sister Principal (wearing her habit) chided me gently and instructed me to follow her steps as she had done it lots of times before and it was perfectly safe. It was. But the College dog, who used to accompany us everywhere, refused to cross.

whenim64 Thu 28-Aug-14 09:55:33

I would hesitate to cross that bridge, but maybe necessity and practice would overcome that. Maybe they would ponder over whether we are brave, trying to dodge moving traffic in a city centre! grin

petallus Thu 28-Aug-14 09:44:24

I see what you are saying Bags. You can only be brave if you are frightened and they don't look frightened. They look as though they are doing something which is 'everyday' to them.

thatbags Thu 28-Aug-14 09:40:57

This picture has appeared in my Twitterfeed several times now. It's a great picture of girls in Nepal using a steel cable pulley bridge to get across a river to go to school. The caption is "Bravest girls in the world".

I don't agree so I haven't faved or retweeted it.

There is a bridge for a start. They are using it.

Secondly, doing that is not brave. I don't suppose they think so either. Doing it shows, hopefully, that they are keen to go to school and just get on with it. I wouldn't be at all surprised to find that that's quite a common sort of bridge in Nepal.

Thirdly, would boys who did that be called brave? Or are boys expected to do things like that and girls aren't?

Would you cross a bridge like that? I would. Maybe not in bad or freezing weather, which I'm sure Nepal gets plenty of.