I was discussing something you raised on this public thread, ab (and on others if my memory serves me) as I and everyone else is entitled to do. I was not aware of any private conversation. It might be better to make your private conversations private and then there won't be a problem for people like me who don't always notice who is being addressed but assume, on a public forum, that it's everyone and that, in any case, what is being said is more important. I commented on what you said, which is what we are advised to do.
So, in conclusion, if I wish to take issue with an if, I shall. If you wish to get grumpy about that, that's up to you.
I'm going to practice telling people 'politely' to butt out. I may need to redefine politely first.