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Phrases/sayings that drive me mad!

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Lynne59 Wed 23-Jan-19 12:37:27

What phrases/sayings/words drive you mad? Mine are:

No problem
At the end of the day
Can't get my head around it
Showcasing (eg. she's showcasing her slim figure/dress/new style)

sodapop Fri 25-Jan-19 06:41:10

Oh yes Grandma2213 that really grates on me as well. With the use of the non word
'texes' as in "he sent me a lot of texes "

Grandma2213 Fri 25-Jan-19 00:50:32

Wow ... lots on here but I haven't spotted. 'He text me.' Is texted not the past tense though fair enough it is harder to say.

Well reading all your posts has been a 'rollercoaster of emotions'! wink

Lindylou23 Thu 24-Jan-19 23:32:28

Off of
Gawjus

Grammaretto Thu 24-Jan-19 23:17:30

I dislike:
In terms of - is overused
Within - instead of in.
Awesome -
Differentiate - instead of distinguish
No worries is as bad as not a problem
But Farnorth I like "tell them I was asking for them" I use it a lot.

cassandra264 Thu 24-Jan-19 23:08:18

All the Americanisms. Maybe they are acceptable in America - but here I do not like

'You guys' - as others have already said -
OMG or Oh my Gahd! (this to me is also offensive)
Hi (or high) five!

I also hate the word 'lounge' - which sounds to me like the home of couch potatoes - instead of'living room' where people might possibly talk, eat, play games and invite friends and neighbours in for a party....

Skinnylizzie Thu 24-Jan-19 22:39:46

I have a student teacher at the moment and she is driving me crazy with ‘we was’ - she is the second I have had with really poor grammar and I want to scream ?

GrannyBeek Thu 24-Jan-19 22:33:44

I’m ashamed to admit that I do say some of these! Most of them I hate.

I also hate:
With respect...
You are where you are.
Suck it up.
Run it up the flagpole and see who salutes it.

Brigidsdaughter Thu 24-Jan-19 22:19:06

'..got your back...'
'...guys...' I detest being addressed as guys when we are out somewhere, me DH and AC

Shizam Thu 24-Jan-19 21:51:59

The overwhelming use of ‘like’ every three seconds by radio DJs trying to pretend they’re young. And ‘can I get a coffee/whatever is order’. Other than that, I’m, like, cool!

Patsy70 Thu 24-Jan-19 21:06:16

'Basically'

Caro57 Thu 24-Jan-19 21:04:25

Going forward
I, myself
At this moment in time

MissAdventure Thu 24-Jan-19 20:45:58

'What would it look like?'
I've noticed this in the caring professions.
Instead of "Well how about if we found your partner a day centre and they went for 3 days a week?"
Its; "i wonder how it might look if we found your partner.. blah blah"

MaizieD Thu 24-Jan-19 20:36:12

'Loved ones' instead of family and friends

The perpetual 'different to'; makes me want to scream

'Outside of'. It doesn't need the extra preposition unless you're talking about the outside 'of' something. Funnily enough people don't seem to say 'inside of'; but perhaps it's just not caught on yet...

Will of the people...

KatyK Thu 24-Jan-19 20:12:54

Not a phrase but a word 'restauranteur' instead of 'restaurateur'

Whitford8 Thu 24-Jan-19 20:07:03

What can I get "you guys" yuk

Wendiwoo Thu 24-Jan-19 19:55:52

Haitch
Funtastic/fntastic
I never - used as a verb to mean I did not
Exactly -used incessantly as agreement to a statement
Perfect - as a response to an answer
Q “What is your bank account number”
A “12345678”. Response “Perfect”.
Passed away
At the end of the day
Can I get, especially when said by persons of pension age
“Jer know wha’ I mean” “Jer know where I’m coming from” at the end of every comment
Missing ‘T’s as in ta’’oo, par’y, be’’er.

glammagran Thu 24-Jan-19 19:48:33

Dumbing down from the Times:-

“How to dress in denim/tweed/beachwear “etc, etc - I’m not 3!!

Little man referring to a young male child

Urmstongran Thu 24-Jan-19 19:46:59

Tillybelle that must have been one helluva lecture to sit through without screaming!
And anyone else watch Sky News and hear Beth Rigby miss off every single ‘g’ when she speaks? As in, ‘gettin’ and ‘just sayin’ etc. Is it a regional thing or just annoyin(g) ❗️

Trixee Thu 24-Jan-19 19:35:58

No worries

Bandit Thu 24-Jan-19 19:21:01

Bumholio

HurdyGurdy Thu 24-Jan-19 18:08:35

Wine O'clock

Awww, blesh ya (supposed to be the equally irritating, Oh bless you - and not in response to a sneeze)

Tillybelle Thu 24-Jan-19 17:43:41

Riverdaffyd. Yes! Of course! That dreaded devil of disgustingly misused English! "Would of", "Could of". I really do feel like screaming which I always thought was not in my nature! I even had a friend who argued that this was correct! Painful! I find the same people who say this usually also say "somethink". AAaaarrrrgghhh!

cagneystrilby Thu 24-Jan-19 17:40:34

Ending every sentence with 'Yeah'
&
On the radio ' Thank you for having me'

FarNorth Thu 24-Jan-19 17:39:36

I don't know if it's a Scottish thing but it annoys me when someone, at the end of a conversation, says "Tell your mother/ granny/ whoever I was asking for them." when, in fact, they haven't asked anything and haven't even mentioned that person.

Tillybelle Thu 24-Jan-19 17:34:11

scrumbleduck. Oh, thank you! I utterly detest the addition of "k" at the end of 'something', 'anything', and 'nothing'. I have actually seen it written as "some think"! With such poor pronunciation, spelling and grammar, it is hardly surprising that logical expression has been lost.
Need I say, I also hate the use of "Was you?" but have been berated for my dislike of it, being told it is a "regional dialect". Too bad, as far as I am concerned. It is not correct grammar.
I have to tell you all, I was at a conference in the early days of the creation of the National Curriculum in 1989. The conference was about English in the Curriculum for the Infants aged 5 to 7. The woman giving the talk was the
author of the report on English in the Infants'School, later referred to by a newspaper as "The Sharon and Tracey Report". From start to finish in her talk she left off the sound of H at the beginning of those words starting with H, she glottal stopped all the Ts in words and used many expressions which one could at best term as colloquialisms. I was so horrified I started to write down all that she said, spelling phonetically words in the way she spoke. My neighbour saw my notes and began to laugh. People wanted to know what was going on and in the break my neighbour explained. I was attacked for not understanding "English at the level of the children". I was a teacher at the time and was studying Psychology. I found the criticism ridiculous. If we say "vis is who you duz when you play crickih'" how will the 5 year old ever learn to spell? How can we ask the young child to learn phonics, sounds such as 'th' if the Teacher and child say 'v'?
I was near to tears for the dumbing down of our education system.