Me: I remember my dad telling me, when I was about six, that we shouldn't clap ourselves
Rufus2 MamaCaz What an odd thing to say to a 6 year old! hmm How would that come up in conversation? I've heard of prim and proper school teachers of which we seem to have a fair number here, but never prim and proper Dads.
My dad was certainly not prim and proper - if he were still with us, he would find that idea hilarious
Nevertheless, he saw part of a parent's role as that of passing on to us children the 'social rules' that he had been taught himself, and that were certainly still the norm in my area when I was a child in the early sixties, things like how to hold a knife and fork, not to put elbows on the table at mealtimes (a rule that I knowingly flout these days as it always seemed stupid to me), not to put feet on bus seats, not to make do much noise that it might impact on the people around me ... .
I could go on, but should point out that these pearls of wisdom were imparted over a long period of time, and mostly in the form of spontaneous observations, never as a lecture.
Perhaps not surprisingly, I don't actually remember how/why the comment (I am pretty sure it wasn't actually a 'conversation' as such) arose, but I think that all the other children at school must have been told the same thing, because I don't remember any of them ever clapping themselves!
Each to their own - people are free to do as they please regarding clapping, but people are free to think what they like about it too.