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RIP prepositions?

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RosiesMaw2 Fri 09-Aug-24 08:34:02

I have become increasingly aware of the omission of any preposition after verbs which I was brought up to recognise as intransitive (not taking an object) . Let me show you what I mean
The Republican candidate agreed to debate Ms Harris on Sept 10 - it used to be that you debated a topic and with or against an opponent
You used to “grieve for “ someone - to “mourn their loss” - now you “grieve” the departed.
You used to “appeal against a sentence” - now you apparently “appeal a sentence”
People used to “pass away “ ie die - now they simply pass
Anybody see what I mean?

Colls Tue 12-Aug-25 13:52:12

I notice especially on Homes Under The Hammer that the Scots presenter says things like: 'needs decorated' where I would say 'needs to be decorated'.
But I heard it also on old episodes of Two Doors Down, so it might be dialect?
Language changes all the time of course, but changes that affect understanding or clarity are, imo, not good.

mabon2 Tue 12-Aug-25 14:13:15

We were taught atuni.that the word Fraught was a post positive, however it seems to have been blown out of the window these days.

cc Tue 12-Aug-25 14:22:50

Cossy

Where I live (in Essex) so many people appear to have stopped using “the” and “to” so they “go shops” “go Spain” “go Doctors” I cannot bear it, it sounds like gibberish!

Or "go toilet". No, just no, though many children seem to use this phrase now.

Skodadoda Tue 12-Aug-25 14:23:28

Cabbie21

What about off of, as in get off of the bus.

And yet we are increasingly reading and hearing ‘out the window’. Where has ‘of’ gone?

cc Tue 12-Aug-25 14:24:59

Cabbie21

What about off of, as in get off of the bus.

Yes, "off of" is horrible.

Daddima Tue 12-Aug-25 14:25:23

Visgir1

Is it just the evolution of Language?
each generation changes it so it becomes normal.
I'm sure our Great grandparents would be horrified at so many things, from the written word to the spoken word.

I had this discussion with a young student who was working with us, as he insisted that using ‘like’ was what he called a ‘marker’, and that it was a perfectly acceptable evolution of language.
I always thought language evolved to include new words like ‘internet’ ( which was ‘surfed’), ‘googled’, and probably many other technological terms.

cc Tue 12-Aug-25 14:26:57

Witzend

The redundant ‘of’ does irritate me, as in e.g. ‘outside of the town centre.’

"outside of" is simply not necessary, I can't understand why it has evolved, but you even hear it from television presenters now.

Greenfinch Tue 12-Aug-25 14:35:23

When I worked as an examiner for the ESOL speaking test we would give credit for the use of “like” as a marker. It should not be over used, however.

MickyD Tue 12-Aug-25 14:37:38

Not sure if this is one, but ‘This needs ironed” instead of “This needs ‘to’ be ironed”.

MickyD Tue 12-Aug-25 14:41:55

Ooops, I put the full stop outside of the speech marks. 🙄

AuntieE Tue 12-Aug-25 14:47:09

Baggs

Saying you are going to debate someone means you are going to debate a topic (or several) with them. Topis is understood and therefore superfluous.

No, to debate someone means you are going to discuss them with other people, probably in the absence of the person being talked about.

The expression is a new one, probably an Americanism, but it sounds both grammatically wrong to me and bad manners, as well!

ExaltedWombat Tue 12-Aug-25 15:06:36

Septimia

I see exactly what you mean and having been thinking much the same as you. I was reminded about the "debate" example only this morning while listening to the radio.

While I accept that language evolves (sometimes to its detriment), in my opinion when the prepositions are omitted the sentence doesn't make sense.

OK. So what else COULD 'debate Mrs. Harris' mean?

Grandma600 Tue 12-Aug-25 15:19:50

"Hence why" and "swap out" make me wince, as does "can I get..." in a restaurant setting when the diner really means "please may I have?"

Sanmrbro Tue 12-Aug-25 15:23:04

Bored with as opposed to bored of?

knspol Tue 12-Aug-25 15:33:22

Cossy

Where I live (in Essex) so many people appear to have stopped using “the” and “to” so they “go shops” “go Spain” “go Doctors” I cannot bear it, it sounds like gibberish!

Never heard this, sounds like something a toddler would say eg "go wee wee".

ExDanser - same in Yorkshire , we go t'shops too.

Georgesgran Tue 12-Aug-25 15:43:58

When my Sis-in-Law moved to Cheshire, she seemed to drop ‘to’. The boys go golf, her DH went football and she goes shops. It sounds really odd.

Romola Tue 12-Aug-25 15:48:01

Could we please make sure that we use pronouns appropriately?
Chicken legs I'm looking at YOU wink
Would you say, this has occupied I?
Think about it.
"My husband and I" is NOT always correct. If you and he follow a preposition (they always take the accusation in English) or if you are the direct objects, use the correct pronoun - obviously me in this case

123kitty Tue 12-Aug-25 15:53:31

James and John I’m not sure you are taking this subject seriously enough for Gransnett

Flippinheck Tue 12-Aug-25 15:55:35

The English language is in a constant state of evolution. The way things are going we will soon be communication in emojis.

RosieandherMaw Tue 12-Aug-25 16:02:34

ExaltedWombat

Septimia

I see exactly what you mean and having been thinking much the same as you. I was reminded about the "debate" example only this morning while listening to the radio.

While I accept that language evolves (sometimes to its detriment), in my opinion when the prepositions are omitted the sentence doesn't make sense.

OK. So what else COULD 'debate Mrs. Harris' mean?

It could mean discuss her relative merits and demerits and whether or not she is a suitable candidate for eg a job/ a good neighbour/ honest or otherwise/ just have a general bitch about her.
Ie the object of the verb “to debate”

grandMattie Tue 12-Aug-25 16:27:16

“Can I get something” drives me potty. I feel like saying”of course, help yourself; it’s in the kitchen/saucepan..” or whatever.
Less and fewer are frequently confused.
My father always used to correct me if I got the use of “surprise” and “astonish” with this story - a man came home after work and found his wife in bed with two men. They were surprised, he was astonished…

patsy706 Tue 12-Aug-25 16:57:55

Bored of rather than bored with drives me up the wall

Labradora Tue 12-Aug-25 18:16:41

grandMattie

“Can I get something” drives me potty. I feel like saying”of course, help yourself; it’s in the kitchen/saucepan..” or whatever.
Less and fewer are frequently confused.
My father always used to correct me if I got the use of “surprise” and “astonish” with this story - a man came home after work and found his wife in bed with two men. They were surprised, he was astonished…

Incorrect use of "less" and "fewer" drives me mad. I find myself literally shouting at the t.v.set "less chances" "FEWER" chances.....It's singular v plural if I remember my grammar correctly.
Begging your presence Miss Keller , my EnglishLanguage teacher. We had a whole teacher for it in those days and it was a separate subject separately examined.

Alison333 Tue 12-Aug-25 18:23:35

Another moan for 'speak with...' It makes me think of two speakers talking about different subjects. Why can't we just 'speak to.....'

eazybee Tue 12-Aug-25 18:29:54

You may be grieving. But you cannot 'grieve my friend' because it does not make sense; you are grieving For the loss of your frind, or for the misfortune that has befallen here.
If you say 'I am grieving' the logical response would be, 'I am sorry; who are you grieving for.'