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New rescue cat. help

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forbesisnow2 Thu 14-Feb-13 15:46:00

After posting on this forum about the sad demise of my beloved cat Panda, nearly 2 weeks ago now. I have taken the huge plunge and adopted a very handsome 5 year old cat from the SSPCA. We just went along for a wee look and this very larger than life face was peering out from his cat cabin. We didnt take much notice of him as we could only see his face. On returning home I mentioned to my husband about this black and white face, and he immediately said he thought he looked like Henry VIII, we laughed for the first time in two weeks, and decided to go back the next day and have a better look. Yes you guessed it, he is now in residence. But I was unprepared for how stressed he is. I have spent all day today playing soft music and trying to hand feed him. He has just eaten a full pouch of whiskas!!! I am delighted. And yes his name is HENRY.
Any tips from anyone out there. But I do feel a bit like a traitor to the memory of my little soul mate Panda. smile

soop Thu 14-Feb-13 16:09:43

forbesisnow2...all it takes is love and oodles of patience. At first, our Rory attacked me - I've the scars to prove it. I wore wellingtons whenever I fed him, because he thought that my legs were worth a chew. He growled, hissed and spat. Day by day, week by week, month by month we've persevered. He's no longer a scrawny, feral cat with bad attitude. He's adorable. We love him to bits...and, in a feline way, he possibly thinks we're okay!
Henry will settle. I wouldn't mind betting that by Monday you'll wonder why it was you worried. sunshine

numberplease Thu 14-Feb-13 16:14:00

Forbesisnow2, we brought our rescue cat, Mia, home nearly 4 months ago. At first she was terribly nervous and timid, hiding behind furniture and the fridge whenever anyone went near her, but after a few days she came round, and is fine now, complete with a very hearty appetite!
Soop, any date yet for Rory being "done"?

kittylester Thu 14-Feb-13 16:29:19

Plug in pheremone thingies (just ask at the vet grin work really well forbes if Henry doesn't settle. We had a really nervy cat (sensitive soul) who was helped a lot by them. Enjoy him, you're really lucky.

soop Thu 14-Feb-13 16:30:14

number you mean to say that you haven't looked at What I Did Today?
A blow by blow account for his GN fans. smile He was wonderful. He's been home since lunchtime and has eaten well.

numberplease Thu 14-Feb-13 17:17:48

Oooooh, Soop, I`ll consider meself told off!! Will go and read it now!

HildaW Thu 14-Feb-13 17:26:20

We also gave a home to a very nervous cat. We just gave him a lot of space - if he wanted to hide behind the sofa we let him. We kept things quiet and basically let him dictate the pace. Perhaps one of those Feliwell airthingies might help too. We used one when we moved to help the cats settle when we moved.

Deedaa Thu 14-Feb-13 21:45:07

We had a 7 year old rescue cat that would suddenly turn and attack us. We never knew what we had done, but something had obviosly triggered a memory. It took a while but the attacks tailed off and he lived to a happy old age with us.
I would say lots of peace and quiet and nice food, and the pheromone plug in is definitely worth a try.