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busybee6969 Sun 03-Apr-16 20:35:26

hi first post,was out 3 weeks ago in big field with my dog no one around through his ball back and to ..., then 2 blokes came on large field with small dog and toddler, they kept their dog on lead I was in middle they were on outside kept throwing ball fior 5 minutes the toddler had hold of their dog lead she let go there dog ran over all the way across field fast towards my dog, my dog was spooked and jumped on their dog, I got my dog asked were they ok. they said my dog had bite there dogs ear, I asked to see , they refused to let me look, today 3 weeks later im out with hubby our dog on an empty field dog catching his ball, the wife of one of blokes came screaming over to us, saying my dog was a dangerous dog needed to on a lead all the time. I said no one around, I explained they would not let me see any damage on their dog, she swore and shouted at us.she then went and got her dog they live near by to show me this tiny mark its ear, I said but how do I know it was my dog her hubby would not let me look at time. we walked off to near our home let dog off for final 5 mins with his ball,she came screaming again saying she was going to phone police and rspca, her family are real hare family of our estate, I phoned police no action. going to phone rspca in morning,phoned dogs home we got our dog from, they said toddler should not of been allowed to hold the lead, very upset, she is very verbal . any views any one . our dog just likes to play catch with his ball twice a day plays with a few friends he knows, I sually put him on a lead with dogs I don't know.

NanaandGrampy Fri 08-Apr-16 08:50:36

I like the yellow ribbon idea a lot . I shall ask at my vets next time I'm in. My dog has not got aggressive tendencies( we joke he could give you a nasty lick smile ) but where we often walk there seems to be a large number of dogs who are , mostly the staffie , bull terrier type. Not necessarily their fault more likely to be ignorant owners who are walking a status symbol.

f77ms Fri 08-Apr-16 09:29:08

I am not a dog owner but I am a bit nervous when dogs running are free when I am in the park . In answer to the op , the other dog owner sounds very aggressive and I would take the advice of going somewhere else for a while .

Badenkate Fri 08-Apr-16 10:45:25

Just done a Google search on yellow ribbons on dogs, because I'd really never heard of it before or seen a dog with a yellow ribbon. It's a great idea but seems to need a lot more publicity.I have to go to the vet today to get some tick stuff (off to Forest of Dean on holiday tomorrow) and I shall check whether they know about it.
Our vet is Steve Leonard so any excuse....

Tizliz Fri 08-Apr-16 10:49:24

I think the yellow ribbon for owners is a good idea. I would give my OH two! He growls when he sees another dog.

Tizliz Fri 08-Apr-16 10:51:17

Badenkate nice vet. Ours is Paco as on This Farming Life.

Iam64 Fri 08-Apr-16 12:53:40

Pony clubs had a similar approach to the yellow ribbon. The tied a red ribbon to the tail on ponies who kicked

Anya Fri 08-Apr-16 15:39:16

Dogs run to greet each other all the time when out walking in an open space. And then there is usually a friendly sniffing of various parts to cement the friendship.

If this behaviour spooks your dog enough for him to jump on another dog, you ought to have anticipated this might happen and have recalled him.

I don't agree that the only way to control a dog is by having it on a lead all the time, but I do agree that if your dog isn't 'under control' (i.e. doesn't respond to your commands) then you need to keep in on a lead and do further training.

pompa Fri 08-Apr-16 15:55:00

The owner may be of the opinion that their dog is under voice control, but those sharing the same area will not have the same confidence. I for one would be nervous of any dog off the lead, once bitten, twice shy. I think it reasonable for any dog in a public place to be under obvious and total control.

Anya Fri 08-Apr-16 16:58:19

I'm sorry you've been scared by a dog pompa but that doesn't mean that all dogs should not be allowed to run freely for exercise. I suppose it does depend on what you classify as a public space.

Where I walk my dogs it is 90% at least only dog walkers with very few other people. In the nine years I've been walking them there there has only been one incidence of bad behaviour when my old pooch was attacked by a Labrador and a German Shepherd.

Many, many owners take the time and effort to train their dogs well - which is more than I can say for some parents and their badly behaved children.

pompa Fri 08-Apr-16 17:33:08

I would define a public place as somewhere the public has a right to be, ie Park, playing field etc. Why should users feel threatened by loose dogs.

Anya Fri 08-Apr-16 18:01:17

Most people don't feel threatened as they walk happily past dogs and most dogs are good natured and friendly.

whitewave Fri 08-Apr-16 18:01:18

pompa if we pass someone that is not a dog walker when out - not often as on South Downs although there are runners and cyclists, my dog simply trots past and doesn't give the walker a glance, even if they speak to him he might glance and even on extreme rare occasions wag his tail and slow down a tad. You shouldn't feel remotely threatened by that, even though he is off the lead.

whitewave Fri 08-Apr-16 18:03:19

pompa what happened to you?

Ana Fri 08-Apr-16 18:09:13

How are those who are fearful of loose dogs supposed to know that about your dog, whitewave? You and Anya are speaking as dog-owners and dog-lovers, but yes, some people do feel threatened by any dog bigger than a chihuahua.

whitewave Fri 08-Apr-16 18:16:48

Yes anya I know that ,I have a friend who is also fearful of dogs. But I am simply trying to reassure people like pompa . I do agree though that some breeds are much more keen to say hello than others, Labradors tend to launch themselves at you as they are full of joy 24/7 it seems to me. It should very much then be the owners responsibility to stop this from happening to anyone not just non-dog owners. I object to a large happy Labrador hurling itself at me with a huge grin on its face.

whitewave Fri 08-Apr-16 18:17:16

Sorry ana

pompa Fri 08-Apr-16 18:25:47

I was bitten by a Jack Russell type dog, ripped my trousers and punctured my leg. This occurred in a lane as I was cycling home from work, the owner thought it was funny [grr]. Most parks and playing fields have by-laws that require dogs to be on a lead.
Dog owners may be able to read a dogs intention, I can't

whitewave Fri 08-Apr-16 18:56:23

Did you report it? My husband was bowled over by a growling staffy really scary. and reported it to the police.

But my point is just like getting knocked down by a car it might happen but you don't go around scared of cars,. Not sure this is a very good example reallyconfused

whitewave Fri 08-Apr-16 18:58:27

Little bugger I would have lost my temper I think!

pompa Fri 08-Apr-16 19:15:53

No not such a good example, cars don't leap from the road to attack you very often (unless you are in Paris -but that's another story). However I think if you had been hit by a car whilst crossing the road, you would be nervous about crossing in future. It's unpredictability of animals that is the problem. BTW, I don't trust cows, horses or pigs, having fallen foul of them previously, and MrsP is frightened of goats.

Badenkate Fri 08-Apr-16 19:20:24

Just to report that the vets had also not heard of the yellow ribbon marker, but also thought it was a good idea.
I've been reading the latest posts. i agree that in a place where people other than dog walkers commonly go, then dogs should be kept on the lead. Areas which are generally accepted as dog exercise areas are different.
I have had dogs almost all my life, and until 2 to 3 years ago I would have said the same as Anya and Whitewall, that dogs can be trained out of bad behaviour. However, 6 years ago I got a rescue springer, whose background I had no information about, who was a perfect dog until about 3 years ago when he gradually started getting very anxious, reacting to noises, occasionally being aggressive towards our other dog, very concerned about dogs coming close to him etc. There is no apparent medical reason for this, it's something we have learnt to cope with because he's also a very affectionate dog towards people. We have developed a containing strategy. It may be that eventually we will not be able to cope. What I'm trying to say is that it is quite depressing to feel that we are being judged as unable to control a dog when in fact we are giving that dog a chance of a reasonably normal life - and I've learnt a very important lesson. I also used to say to people 'It's alright, he's friendly' as my dog ran up full of fun and ready to play. Well my answer now is, yours might be, but mine isn't!

whitewave Fri 08-Apr-16 19:23:38

Yes Mr W is very wary of horses.

You know thinking about the problem a yellow ribbon resolution would be a good idea - something very discrete. The trouble is little s....ts with staffies might cotton on.
But if I was out with my terrier he would be put under close control if you were wearing a warning message. Although he wouldn't really need to be but as you say that is not the point.