I don't want to do it but...

She's a sweet dog Hilda and has no doubt been a great pet. Sending special hugs all round.

What a beautiful little dog, no wonder you feel so sad about it all, Hilda. Hugs to all who are facing the loss of a much loved companion,

I'm so sorry you're in this situation, as I have been several times. Please don't put off going to the vet, there may be something she can do. I just don't want you to have any regrets and only the happiest memories.

I really feel for you its the hardest decision but the kindest for your lovely little dog it's the price we pay for their loyalty and companionship I read a lovely quote heaven is a place where all the dogs you have ever loved come to greet you hope it's true

I can sympathise with your situation. We have had cats who have just "slipped away" in their sleep but a couple who had to go to the vet because we knew they were very sick and would not get better. It's an awful decision to make but a compassionate one. Frankly, I wish that people, including myself, could go so quickly and gently when it is time.

I hope your old friend gets over this, but love will help you to make the right decision if and when it is needed.

Crying here Hilda thinking of you and your little dog. Sending lots of love xx

hilda is there somewhere your dog loves to go, the seaside or park or somewhere? I would take her for a really nice treat day doing all her favourite thing and then the next day take a deep breath and take her to vets. It may be something easy to fix. If she is still eating she is probably not in pain. You won't feel comfortable until you know. You may still have time left with her and if so you want it to be good quality time you can both enjoy together. You know your dog best go with your gut feeling.

I had to make this decision with my little Cassie cat (my baby) during the Queens Jubilee celebrations. She was very ill for a few days and I took her up alone. The vet had been forewarned. A young man helped her slip away whilst she was in my arms in her blanket. I couldn't bring home, couldnt fact it. She slipped away just like I wanted. He was so caring. I left the clinic in tears and a hug from the nurses. A week later I received a condolence card from the vet and staff. It was the hardest thing I had ever done but was the best thing for her.

I feel so sad for you. We have had Labradors over many years and have said goodbye to five so far and one we have at the moment is in trouble, his back legs have gone but seems cheerful and still eating. He is nearly 13. I hope the vet is sympathetic and the bleeding is not serious but she has had a good long life so be thankful for that. It never gets any easier with these lovely dogs, we have 5 labs at the moment and each one has his own personality. Your dog has a lovely face and I hope you can be brave if that sad day comes, I really feel for you.?

My dear mongrel companion of twelve years (rescue dog who was then nineteen) started to fail. I didn't want to make the decision, and anyone who has had a pet can understand that, but my SIL said gently 'You know things aren't right, and you must help her'. It was so hard, but if you don't act, as the days go on it will become worse in that your lovely little dog will fail more and more and then you will have those bad days to think about and remember. While she is still a little bit like herself perhaps it is time to consult the vet; my dog had such a peaceful end, here at home, and we felt such relief along with the heartache that we had saved her from pain. We felt that she deserved that dignity for all her loyalty, love and selflessness. They all deserve that. My thoughts are with you hildajenniJ

My feelings go out to you. I have my third dog who is eight love him so much. My first dog lived only until 10 my last one 14. I hope Leo has a few years to go. A 78 feel I would be unable to replace him but he is wonderful company as I am sure yours is HildaJenniJ. He is really lovely.

She is having a good day today. She has been quite active and eaten well. I think the blood came from the loss of a tooth. I'm holding off the vet visit, as there is nothing she can do.

Oh dear I'm dreading the time when I'm in your shoes mines been with me for 12 years and started to show signs of older age. Your little doggy doesn't sound ready to say goodbye yet so I would take it week by week as she sounds as she's still up to most things. Please keep us posted.

I've had to put dogs down over the years, it's very hard. However, I always said " does my pet have a quality of life still" . If the answer is yes, and the vet says there is no pain, I'd just put an old sheet down where it lies to keep stains off furniture, and carry on. But if there is pain, or no quality of life, I feel my pet deserved to get out of its misery, and I owed it to my pet to do that. Ask your vet for their honest opinion, and take it from there.

We DO all agree that a human being, capable of making an informed decision and communication it, also deserves to opt for a dignified death at the time of their choice? Don't we?

The most difficult decision ever. They can't tell you if they are in pain, and they will try to be cheerful and willing right down to the last minute. How do you know? Listen to your heart. Love and hugs.

It's such a hard decision and I really do feel for you. I had to have my cat put down at twenty two years of age, as she had cancer of the jaw which, in its final stages, involved blood dripping from her mouth and her being only able to suck up the finest peices of ham. She's still with me in our garden and she had twenty two excellent years, fifteen in England and seven in Spain. If we can also say that we had excellent years in our own lives, then that life wasn't wasted. Remember that.

I truly believe that dogs let us know when they've had enough

Sending you love ❤ I know this pain so well and it never gets easier does it.

{{{{{{hugs}}}}}} for you and your little dog ???? I know what you're going through.

Taker her to the vet..it could be something that can be treated. either way, she needs professional help. I know how hard it is to let go of our furry friends believe me....but it should be for her good, not yours.

Lovely dog. So upsetting for you. I have lost two so know what you are feeling. Wait and see what your vet says.

I'm so sorry to hear about your lovely dog, I had to let my dog go 3 weeks ago, he was pacing the floor through the night, and his back legs were going, and he wanted to drink water all the time, he kept staring at me as, I think he was more ill than I thought, or wanted to believe,he just seemed to deteriorate quickly over a few days, he was 18, I wanted to let him go before he had no quality of life, I loved him so much it broke my heart, you will know what to do when the time comes because you love her, I'm thinking about you hildajenniJ,?

How sad, I have had to let 2 of my dogs go this way, one aged 16 and one 17. But do check with the vet, maybe it's something simple, dental for instance, if she is still eating, drinking and acting in her usual way it would be a shame to let her suffer for something minor. Fingers crossed.

farview that really brought a tear to my eye, what a good end for a faithful friend