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Our daughter's cat has just been run over

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B9exchange Thu 17-Dec-20 18:25:39

Just had a text to say that her beautiful Bengal was run over outside her house this morning. We were only laughing at him yesterday pretending he didn't know how to work the cat flap. (She is on her own with two children, so we are in a support bubble for childcare), this cat was part of our bubble. sad The children and my daughter are in floods of tears and we are also struggling.

Jane10 Tue 05-Jan-21 09:00:37

newnanny that's awful. There certainly are bad people around. I really hope that somehow that poor puss makes its way home.

newnanny Tue 05-Jan-21 02:10:31

So sorry about the Bengal. We had a Bengal and she was very beautiful. We let her out but she mostly just went into our large garden. After 4 years she disappeared one day. I rang vet as she is microchipped but not be found but vet told me 2 maincoons had also gone missing on same day who lived very close to us. Vet said most likely someone stole to breed from her not knowing she was neutered. Vet said once person realises she does not get pregnant they will kick her out. She might come home. She went missin on September 12th and we still wonder out calling for her. Not knowing what happened is worse. We lost another cat after it was run over a long haired grey. She was a beautiful cat and so affectionate. She was run over outside our house. My son found her in morning. She still looked perfect. We buried her in our garden under her favourite tree.

paddyanne Tue 05-Jan-21 00:53:52

We lost our cat two and a half years ago when he was hit by a car ,we said no more cats ! 6 months later we had two beautiful kittens ,sisters .We let them out ,one is a wanderer and the other a bit of a home bird,she goes out th back door and round the front so I have to let her back in,her sister will stay out for hours only coming home ofr food.They both come in as soon as its dark though .We wouldn't be without them .
Hope your wee kitten gets well and thrives ,the children will love its antics ,theres nothing as much fun as a kitten

sharon103 Tue 05-Jan-21 00:39:01

So sad to read about your daughters cat. We lost our 'Tiddles' by a hit and run car accident some years ago.
They're part of the family aren't they and missed so much.

sharon103 Tue 05-Jan-21 00:23:58

I'm wishing with all my heart the kitten gets better. flowers
We fall in love with them from day 1 don't we.

B9exchange Mon 04-Jan-21 23:43:02

Yes, my DD did report the breeder, so hopefully action will be taken. I have to say for such a tiny ball of fluff she is amazing bouncy and unfazed by anything, so I am hopeful. The vet has given cream for her poor little bottom, it was so sore when she arrived that she couldn't sit down!

Callistemon Mon 04-Jan-21 22:59:39

I hope the kitten recovers with treatment from the vet and tlc.

Cat's Protection always has cats and kittens that need good loving homes.
Some of these breeders need to be investigated and banned from keeping animals.

Jane10 Mon 04-Jan-21 22:50:59

Oh dear. That's awful although it was an understandable notion for your DD. I hope the poor wee thing picks up. There are such unscrupulous breeders around.
My DD got a new kitten on 23rd Dec but she'd seen the mother and had her pick of the litter weeks before as the breeder wouldn't let the kittens go till they were 12 weeks old. She also lives nearby so was a very good bet.

midgey Mon 04-Jan-21 20:10:50

I dare say your DD paid a ridiculous amount of money for the poor little thing.

B9exchange Mon 04-Jan-21 20:03:23

There are times when you really have to bite your tongue. DD went out and got a new kitten off a well known pet finding website a few days later, despite my cautioning that just before Christmas was not a good time to take on a kitten. She didn't see the mother cat, and although told it was the last kitten, the breeder was advertising kittens with the same photo a day later. The poor little thing was far too small, had appalling diarrhoea and I was worried they were facing another tragedy. No vets would look at her over Christmas. When they finally got to see one it was discovered she was also riddled with worms, I was so worried for the GC. Worms have now been treated, but the diarrhoea is persisting and she is collecting stool samples. The urge to say 'I told you so' is overwhelming, but I have to hold it back!

moggie57 Mon 04-Jan-21 19:51:56

There are not many things to say but you can show them the rainbow bridge sitecob the internet it tells you where you pets go and you can leave a message for your cat and light a candle.hope this helps.then when time has passed look at cat rescue sites and the photos and see if they would like another cat.not the same colour though

Sparklefizz Fri 18-Dec-20 16:33:43

Jane10

I actually ran over my own cat. Appalling time. It was dark, he was old and just ran in front of my car to try to get to the fish van. I'll never forget the horrible feeling. And the guilt. sad

How dreadful for you! flowers

Willow500 Fri 18-Dec-20 16:09:07

Such a terribly sad thing to happen and so close to Christmas too especially when your daughter has been so ill. It's awful when you lose a pet in whatever circumstances but when it's an accident like this it's particularly traumatic.

We had a dog run over on the road behind our house shortly after moving there many years ago. I remember ringing my mum in floods of tears and her reaction being one of why did we let it happen?! shock It was shock of course as she was very upset too. I had to tell the children when they came home from school and we all sat on the sofa crying together sad

Jane10 Fri 18-Dec-20 14:49:51

I actually ran over my own cat. Appalling time. It was dark, he was old and just ran in front of my car to try to get to the fish van. I'll never forget the horrible feeling. And the guilt. sad

QuaintIrene Fri 18-Dec-20 14:04:25

Oh, I’m so sorry ?

Sparklefizz Fri 18-Dec-20 13:54:14

Some breeds of cats like Bengals and Turkish Vans are very lively and very good climbers so need their freedom.

Other cats, especially rescue cats who might have had a sad and difficult start in life, are happy to stay close to home, or even to be indoor cats. I had a rescue cat from the age of 5 weeks who was terrified to go over the threshold even if I was with her all the time. It would have been cruel to force her or to shut her outside.

It's impossible to generalise.

Grandma70s Fri 18-Dec-20 13:49:50

So sad. I’ve lost two cats to road accidents. One of them was hit by a glancing blow from a car and knocked out, died a few hours later without a mark on him.

I wouldn’t keep a cat indoors all the time, though. It’s just so unnatural for them. At least my cats had a good free life exploring gardens and climbing trees, as cats should.

shysal Fri 18-Dec-20 13:30:14

So sad to hear your news! One of my cats is a Bengal, they are full of character so I am sure he will be sadly missed. flowers

grandtanteJE65 Fri 18-Dec-20 12:59:24

So sorry for you all.

I agree not knowing what has happened to a pet is the worst possible thing, but if you have your cat chip-marked you stand a much better chance of being informed if it is run over or found lying dead somewhere.

B9exchange Fri 18-Dec-20 12:49:44

I don't think you can replace him with a kitten, he was a much loved individual, and the children are old enough to need to grieve first. Apparently the car didn't even stop. He was a large cat, you can't hit something that size and not know it.

David0205 Fri 18-Dec-20 07:06:51

Sad but a kitten for Christmas will be healing compensation, never easy but be positive.

Hithere Fri 18-Dec-20 01:17:55

It is so hard to lose a furfamily member.

Shelters and pet adoption organizations on the US make you sign the cat you are going to adopt most remain indoors at all times a I fully support that

Lucretzia Fri 18-Dec-20 00:20:29

So terribly sorry for you and your family, B9exchange

We are a dog family. But losing a loved pet is so hard, especially on the little ones.

I too could never have an outdoor cat. I'd be following it from dusk till dawn!

MayBee70 Fri 18-Dec-20 00:00:43

B9: I had a Burmese cat that spent most of his short’ish life trying to escape. He did have an outside cat pen. When he died after a short illness I wished I’d let him have his freedom. I don’t know how we managed to keep him in for years. He even escaped onto the roof through a sky light once and my husband had to climb up onto the roof to rescue him. I couldn’t face having a cat again.

B9exchange Thu 17-Dec-20 23:41:48

I just can't bear the worry, and we keep our two in all the time, I was really worried when DD first got him, because I thought he might be stolen or run over, but she believed in giving him his freedom sad