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My boy.

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Dee1012 Wed 05-Jan-22 11:39:18

A little over 10 years ago someone I knew told me about a litter of puppies, I went along to see them and one 'chose me'.
He grew into a huge, beautiful Rottweiler and I simply adored him.
He loved everyone and everything and was quite simply the most affectionate, loving dog I've ever owned.
As an ambassador for a horribly maligned breed he certainly taught a lot of people!.
He was my comfort through some dreadful life events and never left my side.

Just after Xmas, I had to make the decision to let him pass...cancer.
I know my decision was the right one. It was the last act of love I could show him and he passed away in my arms.

I'm a complete mess.
I miss him so much and I'm really struggling.
He was such a presence, my son used to say he was convinced he was a 'human in a fur coat'!
I've had dogs all of my life and have loved and mourned the loss of each wonderful one but nothing like this.

TheOtherCatsMother Sat 08-Jan-22 15:51:01

I am so sorry about your magnificent boy. It is never easy but it is the last loving thing we can do.

Hold them as they go.

crazyH Sat 08-Jan-22 16:01:28

Dee, I sympathise and empathise with you. I too had a beautiful Rottweiler, who comforted me during my horrible divorce. I told my ex, he could take whatever he wanted from the marital home, except my girl.
She was the most placid of dogs, sometimes too placid. Any stranger who came to our house would be ‘licked’ to death.
She later developed Cancer and I had to let her go. I asked the vet to come to the house. My children and myself, sat with her till the end. The Vet wasn’t the kindest or most sympathetic, but that’s another story. …

Patsy70 Sat 08-Jan-22 16:52:45

So very sad to hear that you’ve lost your beloved boy, Dee. The happy memories of him will always be with you. Sending you hugs. flowers

Josieann Sat 08-Jan-22 17:01:49

flowers
I am sure he was a wonderful pet. Treasure the memories, I know how you feel.

Gwyneth Sat 08-Jan-22 17:05:04

So sorry to hear of your loss Dee. I’ve had pets all my life and everyone has been special. You will miss him and also have happy memories too. ?

Chardy Sat 08-Jan-22 18:28:48

So sorry Dee1012. Pets are special and have got many of us through the last 2 years.

Borninthe50s Sun 09-Jan-22 12:04:38

I really feel for you OP. I’m having my beloved 14 year old rescue JRT PTS tomorrow due to multiple issues but namely his intermittent aggression due to dementia. He’s just bitten me so badly recently for the second time and I’m on antibiotics.

My heart is breaking and my last few hours with him are going to be so bittersweet but I know I’m doing the right thing. You did too and you’ll look back at your time with your beloved boy and feel happiness and know that you were a truly wonderful owner who gave him the best life.

Gwyneth Sun 09-Jan-22 13:13:57

You and your dear pet will be in my thoughts tomorrow Borninthe50s.

NannyInTheKitchen Sun 09-Jan-22 19:47:52

I cried when I read your post. We had to have our beloved labrador put to sleep 2 1/2 years ago. It was very sudden and although I had lost, and grieved for, many dogs over the years, nothing could compare with the grief I felt for this beautiful boy. I have never experienced anything like it in my life, even when my parents died. He was my soulmate.
All I can say is that your boy loved you so much, and would not want you to be unhappy. Things will get better eventually. Online pet bereavment forums helped me somewhat. My thoughts are with you.

NannyInTheKitchen Sun 09-Jan-22 20:00:29

I'm so sorry Borninthe50s, I will be thinking about you tomorrow

Nonogran Sun 09-Jan-22 21:07:54

We are going through the same pain as you. Our darling sweet rescued Boxer was put to sleep on December 28th.Our pain is very deep but she had Lymphoma & we know we did the right thing by her. She really went down hill over Christmas albeit the best veterinarian care & deepest love and attention from us.
Take heart that grief is the price we pay for love. Your hearts will ease, it just takes time. God bless doggies everywhere.