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Young possibly wild cat - should we feed it?

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Margiknot Tue 09-May-23 12:47:54

We live semi rurally near many stables and next to water. We put duck food out for the wild ducks. A young cat has been visiting our garden to eat this food and catch mice. It is very wary of humans so doesn't seem to be a pet and it runs away if we try to get near it. It seems to be living under our shed. It has no collar and looks in good condition - if a bit thin. It could be a stable cat - but we know most of the local ones ( which are much bigger cats) and this is not one we know. None of the neighbours know who owns the cat so it could be abandoned or a stray.
My question is should we feed it suitable cat food rather than leave it to eat the duck food? If it is a stable cat will feeding it cat food (or suitable scraps) be like stealing it or put it off its job of chasing mice?

I've never cared for a cat!

Hithere Tue 09-May-23 12:51:37

It is too early to day if cat is feral or not, he/she might not trust you yet

I would feed the cat and trap to be neutered/spayed

SueDonim Tue 09-May-23 13:00:54

If you start feeding it, you’ll have to keep on feeding it. Are you prepared to take on that responsibility?

Much as I love cats, I’d alert someone such as the Cats Protection League and let them deal with it.

nanna8 Tue 09-May-23 13:11:59

We took in a wild cat. Twenty three years later we mourned his loss. He was a huge cat and after he trusted us was very loving. He would dribble with pleasure when you stroked his head. We actually have a little memorial garden for him because he was with us so long- we didn’t realise cats could live that long, he must have been at least 25 because he was well and truly adult when he turned up in our garden.

pascal30 Tue 09-May-23 13:23:59

Perhaps try a local animal charity to get it rehoused if you don't wish to take responsibility for looking after it..

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 09-May-23 13:25:10

I couldn’t not feed it. But if you start you must carry on.

FannyCornforth Tue 09-May-23 13:39:16

Germanshepherdsmum

I couldn’t not feed it. But if you start you must carry on.

Same here

Tweedle24 Tue 09-May-23 13:52:31

If you can trap it, take it to cat rescue or vet. You could try taking a photograph and putting on the local page of Fb to see if anyone recognises it.

MayBee70 Tue 09-May-23 14:09:08

If it’s truly feral it will probably remain so. My ex took on several feral cats and some became friendly but others didn’t. I couldn’t not feed it if it was me. Mind you, if it’s female you might end up with several more! If it’s a proper mouser being fed won’t put it off catching mice. We had a big fat British Shorthair that killed anything that moved.

Charleygirl5 Tue 09-May-23 15:34:14

It needs to be caught by the RSPCA, neutered and vaccinated. A cat will wolf a large meal and then go out hunting and bring back a hot supper to enjoy.

I would feed it, you do not want it to eye a duck for Sunday lunch, do you?

HowVeryDareYou2 Tue 09-May-23 16:43:35

My last cat was feral - he wandered into our garden 12 years ago, in a bad state. I used to leave food at the bottom of the garden. He'd eat it quickly then run away (didn't stop to clean himself, his fur was terrible). When I noticed he had a weeping wound, I rang RSPCA. They didn't want to know. I managed to trap the cat in a carrier (after a few weeks) and took him to a vet. I had him treated, chipped and neutered, and I kept him - I already had 2 female cats. I had to sleep downstairs with him for 4 nights, he was terrified of every noise (tv, 'phone, washing machine, etc). He became a gentle, affectionate cat, the nicest I'd ever known, in 40+ years of owning cats. He was with us for almost 12 years, then was hit by a car last October, aged about 19. I miss my Mr Cooper.

Fleurpepper Tue 09-May-23 16:48:09

Our cat was totally feral and wild- it took me 1 month of very patient feeding, for him not to run away at the slightest movement. You should see him now smile

Fleurpepper Tue 09-May-23 16:50:01

He didn't even know how to purr

CatsCatsCats Tue 09-May-23 16:50:56

I echo some of the comments on here.

Last year I trapped a stray cat and took him to the vets. I was prepared to pay for his neutering myself, but the vets didn't want to know as "he might belong to somebody". Even though I had assured them he was a stray.

The RSPCA also didn't want to know unless the cat was in some sort of danger.

Cat Protection were prepared to do something about it until a neighbour said although the cat was a stray they were feeding him and didn't want him to be neutered!

Sorry, this post was about feeding a cat wasn't it? Feed him by all means if you are concerned about him and wouldn't mind him visiting for food for as long as it takes, but don't expect any of the charities/vets to take much notice.

Hetty58 Tue 09-May-23 18:43:03

I'd feed the cat while deciding what to do. I'd like to think that somebody, somewhere, would help my cat if she ever got lost. If you decide to keep it, have it neutered and microchipped.

silverlining48 Tue 09-May-23 19:01:21

Our best most loving cat was feral.

Calipso Tue 09-May-23 19:28:27

You might want to look at local cat rescue groups for advice on what to do, they offer sound information and many will come and trap & scan the cat for a microchip. Vets will also offer this service for free but the cat needs to be taken to them. If the cat is part of a feral colony it would be a kindness for the cat to at least be neutered and returned to the colony. If this has been done already the cat may have one ear tip snipped slightly to show that neutering has been done

Oldbat1 Tue 09-May-23 20:35:29

Cats protection seem to be very helpful where we live. They will lend a trap and arrange for cat to be checked for chip and organise neutering. RSPCA arent worth contacting. Sadly so many unwanted cats and kittens.

Margiknot Tue 09-May-23 23:16:05

Thanks for all the helpful information. I will look for a snipped ear and contact cat protection for advice.

grandtanteJE65 Wed 10-May-23 15:20:59

Are you sure, he is not one of the cats from the nearby stable?
Ask whoever owns the stable, if you can, take a photo of the cat on your phone, and take it with you.

If you start feeding the cat, you must be prepared to go on doing so, and be prepared to deal with any illnesses or accidents he might have, unless you are hard-hearted enough to ignore that he is ill or injured, which you are not.

If you were, you would not be considering feeding him.

During the summer he can live on the mice he catches, washed down with duck food, the occasional bird, and a duckling or two! He probably won't live a long or particularly healthy life on this diet, though.

Next question: have you got close enough to him to be absolutely sure he is a he`? Otherwise you will have kittens on your hands sooner or later, and a fertile queenie cat can have seven litters in the course of a summer, with anywhere between six and eleven kittens in each litter.

If he is an adult entire male, there may be the characteristic very strong and not, even to cat lovers', pleasant smell of tom cat from his urine, but not all entire males give off this scent, and even if you do smell it, the flowering currant bush, that does not produce edible black currants but looks exactly like a black currant bush smells exactly like a tom cat!

So basically, unless you can get near enough to his rear end to see his two furry testicles, you don't know if he is a male or not (male cats keep their penis inside their body until they feel the need to air it, incidently.)

If you are prepared to keep him, well and good, but before making the decision find out whether you can legally keep a "stray" I don't live in the UK so don't know the law regarding cats there. The police or nearest animal shelter can tell you the law, or you can google it.

And find out what it would cost to have the cat neutered - there is a significant difference in the price of neutering, according to whether he is a he, or a she. Cats should also be vaccinated against cat's flu, which is a killer, and a vet will probably advise other vaccinations against contagious feline infections - there are quite a number that can be fatal.

And remember that once he is used to being your cat, you will need to find someone who will feed hm, every time you want to go away for a couple of days, on summer holidays, visit family at Christmas etc.

I love cats, but all of this has to be taken into consideration before you decide to keep one, plus the fact that he most likely catches anything that moves, so there will be dead birds, squirrels etc. to bury.

On the other hand, you and he will have hours of pleasure in each other's company, and if you want, you can restrict him to the garden rather than letting him come indoors, as long as you make sure he has somewhere warm and dry to sleep, especially in the winter and access at all times to clean drinking water.

Nannashirlz Thu 11-May-23 11:51:02

I also live in a rural area and we have a few cats that visit our area one of my neighbors started feeding this cat just before lockdown over lockdown it started to come closer and crying at his house sometimes even going into his house and staying over night when ever it felt like. Unfortunately he moved away few months ago he did try taken it with him but it wouldn’t go. So it comes around every now and then then leaves it’s not the only cat in our woods he did report it and we never noticed anyone checking on them. He was told lots are being left nowadays. But he got enjoyment from it visiting him.

blueberry1 Thu 11-May-23 12:48:28

Please feed the cat, it can make such a difference to its health to receive a good diet. Are there any small cat charities in your area?I found an excellent one when I had stray cats in the garden. (The RSPCA and Cats Protection were no help at all.)
This small charity was so helpful,they trapped and neutered the cats and kittens and re-homed them, all except one which I kept.

sharon103 Thu 11-May-23 13:38:23

I'm soft hearted and would have to feed it and like already said, you would have to keep on feeding it.
Our first cat was a feral kitten. The family of them lived in a farmers barn.
All the kittens had sticky eyes and farmer thought they had hayfever. Wrong.
We took him, the kitten not the farmer smile to the vets the next day and he had got cat flu. Luckily he survived and he was the most loving and amusing cat we have ever had. He got knocked down on the road at 2 years old love him.

RakshaMK Thu 11-May-23 14:54:47

Stables will often re-home feral cats that can't be homed in a domestic situation.
How about asking around the stables to see if they recognise him and are responsible for him?

Gundy Thu 11-May-23 16:13:55

This is a joyful little beating heart who’s lost its family and is probably malnourished and starving, just trying to outrun predators.

First- it needs PROPER food to survive. Plan on putting out fresh WATER too. Everyday.

Second - he/she is prey for other animals and could become a meal for hawks, coyotes… or run over by a car.

Third - wild/feral cats feed off of BIRDS. Your beautiful songbirds may go missing.

Fourth - it’s important to call cat/animal protection services to catch and have them spayed/neutered. They should not propagate.

Fifth - Consider giving this little creature a chance at life - a good life with you. My rescue cat was a stray and is the best indoor pet I’ve ever had. She is so loving. I’m grateful to have her in my life.
Good Luck Little One!
USA Gundy