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Young possibly wild cat - should we feed it?

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CatsCatsCats Tue 09-May-23 16:50:56

I echo some of the comments on here.

Last year I trapped a stray cat and took him to the vets. I was prepared to pay for his neutering myself, but the vets didn't want to know as "he might belong to somebody". Even though I had assured them he was a stray.

The RSPCA also didn't want to know unless the cat was in some sort of danger.

Cat Protection were prepared to do something about it until a neighbour said although the cat was a stray they were feeding him and didn't want him to be neutered!

Sorry, this post was about feeding a cat wasn't it? Feed him by all means if you are concerned about him and wouldn't mind him visiting for food for as long as it takes, but don't expect any of the charities/vets to take much notice.

Fleurpepper Tue 09-May-23 16:50:01

He didn't even know how to purr

Fleurpepper Tue 09-May-23 16:48:09

Our cat was totally feral and wild- it took me 1 month of very patient feeding, for him not to run away at the slightest movement. You should see him now smile

HowVeryDareYou2 Tue 09-May-23 16:43:35

My last cat was feral - he wandered into our garden 12 years ago, in a bad state. I used to leave food at the bottom of the garden. He'd eat it quickly then run away (didn't stop to clean himself, his fur was terrible). When I noticed he had a weeping wound, I rang RSPCA. They didn't want to know. I managed to trap the cat in a carrier (after a few weeks) and took him to a vet. I had him treated, chipped and neutered, and I kept him - I already had 2 female cats. I had to sleep downstairs with him for 4 nights, he was terrified of every noise (tv, 'phone, washing machine, etc). He became a gentle, affectionate cat, the nicest I'd ever known, in 40+ years of owning cats. He was with us for almost 12 years, then was hit by a car last October, aged about 19. I miss my Mr Cooper.

Charleygirl5 Tue 09-May-23 15:34:14

It needs to be caught by the RSPCA, neutered and vaccinated. A cat will wolf a large meal and then go out hunting and bring back a hot supper to enjoy.

I would feed it, you do not want it to eye a duck for Sunday lunch, do you?

MayBee70 Tue 09-May-23 14:09:08

If it’s truly feral it will probably remain so. My ex took on several feral cats and some became friendly but others didn’t. I couldn’t not feed it if it was me. Mind you, if it’s female you might end up with several more! If it’s a proper mouser being fed won’t put it off catching mice. We had a big fat British Shorthair that killed anything that moved.

Tweedle24 Tue 09-May-23 13:52:31

If you can trap it, take it to cat rescue or vet. You could try taking a photograph and putting on the local page of Fb to see if anyone recognises it.

FannyCornforth Tue 09-May-23 13:39:16

Germanshepherdsmum

I couldn’t not feed it. But if you start you must carry on.

Same here

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 09-May-23 13:25:10

I couldn’t not feed it. But if you start you must carry on.

pascal30 Tue 09-May-23 13:23:59

Perhaps try a local animal charity to get it rehoused if you don't wish to take responsibility for looking after it..

nanna8 Tue 09-May-23 13:11:59

We took in a wild cat. Twenty three years later we mourned his loss. He was a huge cat and after he trusted us was very loving. He would dribble with pleasure when you stroked his head. We actually have a little memorial garden for him because he was with us so long- we didn’t realise cats could live that long, he must have been at least 25 because he was well and truly adult when he turned up in our garden.

SueDonim Tue 09-May-23 13:00:54

If you start feeding it, you’ll have to keep on feeding it. Are you prepared to take on that responsibility?

Much as I love cats, I’d alert someone such as the Cats Protection League and let them deal with it.

Hithere Tue 09-May-23 12:51:37

It is too early to day if cat is feral or not, he/she might not trust you yet

I would feed the cat and trap to be neutered/spayed

Margiknot Tue 09-May-23 12:47:54

We live semi rurally near many stables and next to water. We put duck food out for the wild ducks. A young cat has been visiting our garden to eat this food and catch mice. It is very wary of humans so doesn't seem to be a pet and it runs away if we try to get near it. It seems to be living under our shed. It has no collar and looks in good condition - if a bit thin. It could be a stable cat - but we know most of the local ones ( which are much bigger cats) and this is not one we know. None of the neighbours know who owns the cat so it could be abandoned or a stray.
My question is should we feed it suitable cat food rather than leave it to eat the duck food? If it is a stable cat will feeding it cat food (or suitable scraps) be like stealing it or put it off its job of chasing mice?

I've never cared for a cat!