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Dog sleeping on my bed

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Babs03 Sun 07-Sept-25 07:10:05

farview

I love her sleeping on my bed… my life re H’s Alzheimer’s/vascular dementia is horrendous…and waking up with her snuggled up by feet is lovely

So sorry, I totally understand, my DH had a stroke and bleeds on the brain which means I am now his full time career, so if your dog sleeping on the bed makes your life more bearable there is really nothing more to say.

Marg75 Sun 07-Sept-25 07:04:53

Farview šŸ’

Esmay Sun 07-Sept-25 05:45:18

I always groomed my dogs very carefully . They were shampooed weekly with tea tree oil added and their teeth were brushed . I didn't mind if they crept up onto my bed at night .
I'd wake up with numb legs .
It's your choice !

Shirleyw Sun 07-Sept-25 05:09:13

Lol friendlygingercat that’s true.
Our dog is a bull mastiff so sleeps downstairs, she’d fill our bed and would be no room for us ….she is allowed on our sofa though, throws are laundered regularly.

friendlygingercat Sun 07-Sept-25 03:02:43

You’re far more likely to catch something horrible from having a human in your bed.

smile

Abnuyc123 Sun 07-Sept-25 02:28:42

Dogs aren’t disgusting. My poodle is beautifully clean and gorgeous with it.

Many dog owners have their dogs on the sofa with them and have them on their beds. Nothing bad happens. You’re far more likely to catch something horrible from having a human in your bed.

Primrose53 Sat 06-Sept-25 22:45:31

If the OP is even asking this question then I believe she knows the answer herself. It is disgusting.

Abnuyc123 Sat 06-Sept-25 22:35:08

farview

My cocker spaniel sleeps on my bed….i love her being there…. My friends think it’s wrong… I don’t… anyone else’s dog sleep on their bed? šŸ•ā€šŸ¦ŗ

If you’re happy with your dog on your bed, then that’s all that counts. Ignore anyone who pokes their nose into your business. 🐾

srn63 Sat 06-Sept-25 22:31:51

I think you should do as you see fit. It's no one else's business where your dog sleeps.

Debbi58 Sat 06-Sept-25 22:28:12

Yes , our jack Russell has always slept on our bed. She gets in if it's chilly, I wash our bedding every weekend and she has regular baths. Can't see the problem myself

HowVeryDareYou2 Sat 06-Sept-25 22:21:28

I've got a cat who sleeps on the bed. He actually waits for me at the top of the stairs, then gets on the bed when I go into the bedroom.

farview Sat 06-Sept-25 22:21:06

Marg75 šŸ’•

farview Sat 06-Sept-25 22:19:52

I love her sleeping on my bed… my life re H’s Alzheimer’s/vascular dementia is horrendous…and waking up with her snuggled up by feet is lovely

Marg75 Sat 06-Sept-25 22:13:48

Yes our Springer, little girl, used to sleep in her bed next to us but when DH got up early as he has always done, she used to get up onto the bed and snuggle into my back, and if I wanted to turn over, she would roll over as well! I used call her my angel! Miss her still.

Casdon Sat 06-Sept-25 22:10:00

No, mine sleeps happily downstairs, in his own bed, in his (open) crate, which he has done since he was a puppy. I couldn’t be doing with him licking my face at 5am because he wants his breakfast, which he definitely would do. We have a dog guard at the bottom of the stairs, he is only allowed up by invitation due to his tendency to rampage round like a bull in a China shop.

Dontcallmelove Sat 06-Sept-25 22:02:38

Sorry, I find this disgusting. It’s a dog, an animal, it shouldn’t be on a bed.
I grew up with dogs and they were never allowed on to furniture.

25Avalon Sat 06-Sept-25 21:51:59

No. My dog isn’t allowed on furniture including beds. She is very big and has her own bed anyway. I wouldn’t like to be woken up by a slobbering dog either. Very unhygienic but if that’s your choice it’s up to you.

Georgesgran Sat 06-Sept-25 21:51:00

DD2’s dog, but yes.

Whitewavemark2 Sat 06-Sept-25 21:47:56

Yes of course I did😊, but he usually jumped down and into his bed next to mine.

Now I have a cat - purring away.

Galaxy Sat 06-Sept-25 21:46:54

Yes of course.

farview Sat 06-Sept-25 21:45:59

My cocker spaniel sleeps on my bed….i love her being there…. My friends think it’s wrong… I don’t… anyone else’s dog sleep on their bed? šŸ•ā€šŸ¦ŗ