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I found husband looking at internet porn

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pinkhater Fri 04-May-12 09:53:52

Hello anyone

I desperately need to talk to someone about this but can't think who. For a long time I have known that he searches for stuff, as it came up on a search history (he's not totally computer literate) but last night I walked in on him. I am really p*****d off with him but don't know if I should be !!? A couple of years ago when I suspected, I mentioned it and he dismissed it as innocent. We have never discussed it since. I am swinging between thinking I'm a total prude and feeling angry, as I've always taken a no tolerance view of page 3 and the objectification of women. I don't know whether to laugh or cry !! He's 68 by the way.

Lona Sun 08-Jun-14 14:39:29

Doesn't that just sum up marriage..........'a difficult balance to strike'.

Grannyknot Sun 08-Jun-14 17:10:53

Dorset I disagree with the generalisation that it is something men do. My husband has no interest in porn, he really doesn't. He'd far rather watch sport on television.

And as for pole dancing - my colleague at work had us all in fits of laughter recently, having been to a pole dancing club, describing the poor person whose job it is in between dances - and dancers - to clean the pole. Some poor sucker actually follows the acts brandishing a spray bottle of cleaner and a cloth. Health and safety rules!