We do keep any copies of letters written to them on pc. this is why I use the computer to write although I do sign with love by hand. My son doesn't see them at all even though he has been through the courts 4 times now and been granted contact every time. He also keeps copies as we have no idea if they ever receive the gifts we send.
We have given the girl a photo album with messages (simple ones) from our family. She handed it back to my son two days later (he was going to pick them up one Christmas - the last time he saw them) with just two photos of herself and her little brother taken out, saying to my son. 'I don't want any pictures of you - I hate you' She was only 8 and was obviously prompted to do this. I hope it was this anyway. She is just 13 now and the little boy almost 10. They were 8 and 4 the last time we saw them.
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