Dear willsandco I remarried in 2007 after being with my first husband up to his death after having had 30 years together. I spent 3 years alone and never thought I would meet anyone else but of course found an equally lovely man to whom I am now married. I found it very difficult to remove my wedding ring and did so 1 year after his death and now wear it on the other hand, I had to have it made a little bigger as that hand of course is different from the other. Why do we feel that we have to leave the past that has been so important.
It feels right on the other hand.
Eventually you might feel that you don't have to wear it at all.
Sometimes it is just too hard to let go of the past but when it feels right you will stop wearing it.
Ask yourself what your previous husband would have wanted you to do that was what I did.
Congratulations on your new love
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