When one of you not interested in sex

absent the laws in Australia appear to be different to those in the UK regarding division of property if a couple separate. In Australia de facto and married couples are treated the same. If you have been together for at least three years your partner/spouse are entitled to a share of your property. Have you checked to see where you stand in regard to NZ laws. Your partner could leave you and be entitled to a large portion of your property.

Goodness me! and Elegran well said and bravely too

Elegran - wonderful suggestion, if only some one would find such a treatment

Who is this Shiny?
Strange post.
Are you new?

That was for you Elegran

Elegran grin] Good for you!

That wasn't for you Elegran, that was for shiny's comment.

You must tell the doctors that, shiny. If just thinking can cure a dry sore c**t where creams, hormones and medicines fail, you are on to a winner.

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Accepted and thank you Lona

I apologise absent, it was a thoughtless moment.

Lona I am so glad that you find my unhappiness a source of humour. Shall I tell you about some other things that cause me to cry in private so you can have a really good laugh?

Reported him/her too. First time I have reported anyone - what a twit.

He's been deleted, thank goodness!

So much sadness here. I have tried every cream/ gel on the planet: nothing works. My kind Doctor even sent me to the Hospital fof help. No joy there, either. I have mentioned before that many years ago I used to have a Tetosterone implant, that realy worked but they stopped doing it.
I have to say, though, we do laugh about it.
Please dont think I'm being flippant about this. My OH had a 3 year affair because of this problem.

Absent re your late Sunday post. I recognise a lot of what you are saying there.

I reported one of his posts - it was clear what he/she/it was upto.

Has anyone else received a PM from rydelad? He is looking for sexual encounters! I have reported him. I would hope none of us is that desperate.

absent No wonder you have no sense of humour!

Always, always ninathenana.

absent Once again that dreaded word 'finance' gets in the way of how we would like to live.

At 65 I am one of those who really doesn't want to know anymore. It was good once upon a time. DH probably would still be interested.

I sort of lost interest after too many times of DH coming to bed late and trying to get me interested. Doing it out of sympathy, habit or just so you can actually get a nights sleep made matter worse, as well as very diminished hormones which made it very uncomfortable at my last attempt.

I cannot even remember how many years ago that was.

I don't know if my attitude to sex has added to the stress in the relationship. I think I was just fed up and worn down with the inability of my OH to understand anybody else's needs but his own or to see that others don't automatically think like he does.

I really can live without sex and I wouldn't even like another relationship.
A lack of actual sex itself really does not bother me I would appreciate emotional closeness and someone with a proper sense of humour.
This is getting too miserable and too flipping late! I am off to bed

ninathenana Mr absent has no money and no source of income. I don't think he will even be entitled to a state pension when the time comes. All the properties in England and the contents of this house in NZ belong to me. My sense of fair play means that I think it would be wrong to leave him in the lurch but, equally, I cannot afford to pay for two separate households. If I could have left him behind when I emigrated, I would have done.

Counselling is out of the question when "I'm the only one with a problem". Fairly ditto of phoenix's post. In any case, it is far too late now.