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Kacee Fri 27-Feb-15 14:59:03

My husband of nearly 40 years has left me for someone 17 years younger than him. He is 63 she is 45. We have grandchildren, she has no ex husband or children. It has completely devasted me, 6 months down the road I am in as much pain as the day it happened. I have ended up being treated for pyschosis and severe depression.
He tells me he loves her and is in it for the long haul.
How do I get through this. I am lonely & miss him dreadfully. I want him to come home.

Ana Thu 05-Mar-15 22:54:21

That you know what I meant.

Soutra Thu 05-Mar-15 23:31:26

The Scottish exhortation to "Awa an' bile yer heid" seems particulately apposite somehow.hmm

petra Fri 06-Mar-15 07:36:22

Could not have put it better,Soutra.

Kacee Fri 06-Mar-15 14:02:20

Oh dear, I am really sorry I seem to have caused a bit of tension.
I haven't been around because I was at the hospital yesterday and the Dr this morning, not as dramatic as it sounds.

Nobody has upset me, I told myself at the start of this road honesty was the best way forward.

Saw him again and ended in another row. I need to move on but it is so very hard.

Thank you all for taking the time to reply to my post & I am sorry if I caused any tension.

Just off with my little grandaughter shopping, back later smile